Feeling really lonely ever since my favorite people went to college?

Question

My favorite people ever went off to college and I'm about to be a sophomore in High School. I have friends who are still here, but I really miss the college kids. One of my my-age friends made me a scrapbook of all of my favorite-people who are now away and although I love to look at it (it legit brings a smile to my face) it makes me sad that they're not going to be in school this year.

I talked to some of my favorite people online once, but for some weird reason, whenever one of them is online the moment I'm about to begin talking to them, they sign off. I'm such a believer in signs and I'm scared that this means that i should move on. I just miss them so much, I feel like a part of me is missing!

Answer 1

It is time for you to move on and be friends with people your own age.  Enjoy the rest of your high school years, they go by so fast!  If you spend them lonely and focusing on people older than you, you will miss out on a lot of opportunities.  Listen to the signs.  Reach out and make some friends with people in your classes.  You will be okay without your favorite people.  You may even find some new favorite people along the way.  You will see, just open your mind.

Answer 2

i know how that is, only when it was me it was before my junior year.  i had these senior friends my sophomore year and they were like my big sisters.  totally different ways, but same idea.  the girls were there for me and still are i can tell them anything and they know how to make me feel better.  they know so well that they can tell me im freaking out and know even now how to calm me down.

i still talk to them online, on facebook, emails etc and even txts.  they seem like they are worlds away from me, in reality 2 of them are not more than 2 years older than me.  i know its hard right now, and it will be for a while, but you will be ok.

i remember that seeing a new frosh open one of my friends old lockers was really hard, and not seeing them in the halls between classes killed me for a month or 2.  now im fine, im a senior and even though i lost another group of seniors after my junior year, but i know itll be easier this time, i know that i can still talk to them which is really all that matters :)

it will be tough for a while, not gunna lie, but you will make new friends in your age and you will be fine in time

Answer 3

I felt the same way once my friend went to college last year. My friend was like my transportation and somebody I talk to and go places. I really miss my friend a lot. And on top of that the last time I say my friend was Christmas of 2007 because my friend takes college summer class and barely come home on holidays. You will get over it, just keep in touch with your friend. That's what I do.

Answer 4

Hope it doesn't sound mean but I think that you should move on.  When I went to college it became so difficult to stay in touch with my friends back home.  It's like you are almost living in two worlds.  It's hard to accept change sometimes but you seem like a great girl and you come across as a very intelligent person.  While it seems hard now, and you may be nostalgic for a while, I have no doubt that you will soon get over this.  Enjoy where you are and who you are with now.  Focus on what you have and what can be, instead of what you are missing. Best of luck to you!    

Answer 5

Have you ever thought that they are now moving on with their lives? I think you should too. You feel like you can't go on, but in time you will.  

Answer 6

move on and make some more favorite people.