Feeling self concious

Question

so last week i went to camp . we were talking about a girl we missed becuse she was too old to come this year when one of the guys made a comment that she was chubby when i always thought she was super skinny. than i started too think that too him i must look like a whale . the entire week and still now i have felt really self conscious about my body . i always knew i wasnt a twig but i thought that i was just muscular ( becuse i am a gymnast , dancer and soccer player ) and had wide hips but now i am not so sure . please tell me the truth so i can do somthing about it .

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Answer 1

trust me, you are the farthest thing from fat

you are just how you say you are, not a twig but muscular and you look healthy. Do not do anything to change, you are beautiful the way you are (:

and honestly, i would rather be like you because i am super skinny (some ppl call me a twig) and i dont have any curves i would much rather have your skinny but with curved body so be thankful!

and by the way don't listen to that guy because he doesn't know what the heck he is talking about!

Answer 2

Your not fat, or chubby. It doesn't matter what other people think, anyway.  

Answer 3

you are not fat

Answer 4

please hunny, you are not fat AT ALL. you don't have to worry, if you ever feel self conscience about your weight, go on google and type in "fat women" the click on images. that will brighten your day... and make you very sick.

you're not fat hunny, YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL!!!!!! :)

Answer 5

You look completely fine to me.

If you're worried about it then try yoga, it's amazing :)

And try drinking a litre of water when you wake up and before you go to bed. This is supposed to make you lose weight but I'm too lazy to try haha.

& That dress is so cute, where'd you get it!?

Answer 6

Well ... first of all if you are a gymnast, dancer and soccer player I'm sure you are totally fit!

Don't listen to what other people have to say about your body

don't let other peopl let you down

especially if it's a guy

obviously if he doesn't see that you have a nice body then he's npt even worth your time

to be a gymnast you have to work extreamly hard to stay fit!

Answer 7

you look good, stop...

Answer 8

your are skinny

dont worry

:D

Answer 9

You're beautiful. I wish I had a bod like you.  

Answer 10

Hun, don't listen to anything that guy says.  If he thinks your friend is fat, and you think you're heavier than her, then the whole world must be flipped upside down.  I must be super morbidly obese if you think you're overweight.  I've never been thin, and have super wide hips as well.

It shouldn't matter what he thinks anyways.  He's one person, and of course he's entitled to his opinion, but he shouldn't affect your own perception of your own body.  You should think of yourself as beautiful no matter what.  Don't listen to what other people say, and what should it matter anyways.  You are you, and they will just have to accept you the way you are made.  And there's nothing wrong with that.

Answer 11

you're fine. you look healthy. keep it that way.  

Answer 12

That guy must have some real confidence issues cuz you have like a perfect body, you look so cute in the last pic!

Answer 13

You look fine.  Don't get caught up in that "I must look perfect all the time thing".  You look good, and I bet your a good person.  Being a good person is all that counts in life and it will get you places looks will never get you.  If you feel a little out of shape just workout.  But I think you look fine and I bet a lot of people do.

Answer 14

Oh, don't worry!

You're in good shape.

Curvy goood. Haha.

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Do what you're doing and don't change ANYTHING.

Answer 15

omg no way

you not fat at all

that guy is just a jerk

Answer 16

Curves are s**y.  They have been s**y since the beginning of time, its the difference between men and women.  You are not fat.  Perfect!

Answer 17

I would kill to have your body :(  

Answer 18

I'm 26. If you were fat i'd call you fat. If your hips were to wide i'd tell you, but you have to understand, when you are an adult, taste comes into play. Some guy's like beanpoles, some guys like sir mix a lot, like big butts. Some guys like model type blondes others cant stand them. Based on your pictures i would say you beautiful. You have a great body and you shouldn't be so hard on yourself. Although you will find yourself as you grow up have fun be proud, and live it up. Cause as you'll find in 10 years, no one will give a sh9t. P.S. if i were your age i'd take you off the market you hottie. good luck!!!

Answer 19

your curvy! Not fat!

Answer 20

no way! you are super skinny!! that guy doesnt know what hes talking about if he says youre fat.