Feeling suicidal....HELP?!?

Question

I'm not going to give you my life story, but I can say it's been a depressive journey! As a result of certain events and my lifestyle I've been stuck in this dark hole. I can't see any other way out, and I have constant thoughts of ending m life. ('Could this pole hold my weight?')

They're really scary!! I'm unsure though, do I, don't I? I know your all gunna say don't, but you don't know how hard it is!! Is there anything I can do to get these thoughts out of my head? HELP?!

Answer 1

dont b fuki.n daft suicide = h**l 4 eva no way out love dont do it go to ya gp ask for help

Answer 2

Confront the source of this feeling, what started you off thinking this. Back track, what you should do is write down all the things that brass you off, upset you. Then see if you can change them. Also, what I finds help when I'm feeling low, do something different maybe something silly like change your hair or something, it might not sound much but it gives you a confidence boost.

Silly little things make a big difference, make sure you take a good long hard look at yourself, if theres anything you want to change, then just do it. Life is far too precious and short to waste it. Life is what you make it, if you want to make it happy only you can do it, if people put you down and make you feel bad, just think I am so much better than that, people who resort to making people feeling like c**p to make himself look big are the scum of the earth.

I used to get called Hagrid because I'm tall and have curly hair, it made me feel awful. I mean it got so bad I had people lean out of cars shout it at me, or worse they would spit on me and throw bottles at me. I got that a school too. See I like to sing and one day I got up on stage, and they started to do it. I turned around to them and said I don't give a c**p if you call me Hagrid, then they stopped. Contemplating suicide is running away from the problem, facing it is the best way, whether it be mentally or pyshically. Then you'll not only feel better about yourself, but people will respect you.

If you can't just confront the problem, and also if this doesn't help ring childline (0800 11 11) or seek psychiatric help. Or tell you parents.  

Answer 3

suicide is never the answer

think back through the years to how many peoples lives you touched

even if you didnt realize it then

you have friends

you have family

there is never any way we can truly escape our fate as humans, but there are people that can help you through the though times

ive been going through the same thoughts through this past week

and the only thing that has helped are my friends and my music

i know sounds corny

but its realy not

sometimes the hardest choises can be answered by the simpilist thought

and think ahead to the future

if you live on to tell your story to someone going through the same things

then you just may be able to help them

but first we need you in the now

have fun in the small things

live for the now

if someone pisses you off

just remember

someone probably pissed him/her off and they dont know how to deal with it

talk it out

sometimes you have the closest friends right in front of you and not even know it

Answer 4

Ring someone now you don't have to feel this way help is always at hand trust me these thoughts are horrible and scary you are not alone.Pick up the phone ring the samaritans you need to get everything off your chest without bottling things up,its tough when these thoughts stick in your head but you need to talk to someone there are people that can help you believe me.

Answer 5

I'm sorry :(

I think that a lot of times the experiences a person has gone through in their life can bring them down so much and for so long that it seems like things can never get better or that life is just pointless. I completely understand how these thoughts can be scary.

I'm not gonna say do it and i'm not gonna say don't do it. Because it's not my choice to make. And believe it or not, I do know how hard it is sometimes, because I feel the same way you do.

Getting thoughts out of your head...try writing down all of the things you are greatful for, things in life you wish to do, accomplish, places you want to visit, people you'd like to meet. I think it's easy to want to end your life when you have nothing to look forward to. I understand. A lot of times life can seem very sinister and dark, but there is a brighter and happier side, although society and the world these days are going downhill. But also, consider your religion, if you are catholic, if you kill yourself you will burn in h**l. If you aren't then I don't know. But hey, honestly, do whatever makes you happy...remember that everything starts with a thought, some thoughts actually turn into actions and others do not. I say don't give up on life, that's what i try to tell myself.

i hope you feel better :)

Answer 6

it's worth sticking around just in case things get better, even if you think they won't, i mean how can you be sure? Life can be really ****, but the random stupidity and pointlessness of this existence never fails to amuse me, in the mean time i'd take the durrr guys advice, turn your sadness into anger, it's a lot more productive, try violent exercise and smashing stuff

Answer 7

You are not alone! There are more people out there who feels just the same.. i Have been there.

Whenever you have these thoughts say to your self " In whatever situation Im in right now, it couldnt be worse in this world, Im lucky"

Also think about how your love ones will feel if they lose  you?? I personally would want to see people suffer cos of me, that will be selfish.

that is what I do and it helps a great deal.

Answer 8

You have to go and see a doctor and tell them what you told us.  They will put you in touch with a therapist or psychiatrist who can help.

I used to look forward to going home from work because then I could try to kill myself!  I'd told my doctor I was depressed before but it was only when I told her about my suicide attempts that I got help.

Answer 9

Keep yourself busy with some other fun stuff that you usually do to. Avoid being alone, socialize with some nice bunch of friends.

or try being with small children.(I am saying bcoz this particular thing helped me overcome anxiety)      

Answer 10

What is your lifestyle? your not a darts player are ye?

Answer 11

see a doctor.  

Answer 12

OMG please don't killyourself your rite i may not know what you feel like but how old are you like 13--20 or somthing i mean as you get older i think things will get better i hate when people say i'm gonna kill myself even if its a joke please don't it hurts other people around you and im sure there is atleast one person out there that loves you alot PLEASE DON'T  and don't ask some one to do it for you this is a horrible story  every life is on this planet for something and god wouldnt let you be here if there was no reason just tell your self that every thing will be ok and just try to think possitive and  DONT PLEASDE DONT WE WANT TO HELP!

if you need to talk or need help email me @ [e-mail]

we luv you  GOODLUCK i want to help!

Answer 13

Dont go to a therapist, obviously thats a common sense answer and your apparently not wanting to go to one if your asking this.

Im so sorry that your going through this.

What you could do is write down all the things in life that make you happy! I know it sounds corny, but my friend went through depression and his therapist told him to write down all the happy things, then all the things that make him sad. And I PROMISE, you will end up with WAY more happy things on your list.

And i dont mean to sound mean but, suicide is so selfish. You really don't want to ruin the lives of loved ones just because you dont like your own, ya know?

God Bless :)

Answer 14

Pray & ask for strength & guidance! Seek help from family or friends... believe it or not, they do love you! If you can't go to them then find a professional person to talk to! Whatever it is that has troubled you please forgive the people who offended you and yourself. Don't forget to pray!

Answer 15

talk to someone.

i was exactly the same as you. i was at school once and actually left the room to go and kill myself but i didnt. i felt so alone and felt that the last thing i could ever do was tell someone how i felt. i thought they wouldnt care, would laugh at me or tell me im attention seeking. but then after MONTHS of feeling like **** i let rip in a arguement with my mum and told her everything and she understands. after my whole life believeing that she wouldnt. and i feel a million times better. i managed (before i told my mum} to convince myself that i had borderline cos of kept feeling suicidal to suddenly hypomanic cos i felt so ****.

i know that you wont want to tell anyone, thats what i was told and i thought "yeah yeah. easier said than done" and ignored it. but trust me if you really want help, then the first thing you should do is tell someone how you feel or see a therapist.

good luck : ]  

Answer 16

Don't do it your're probally in your twenties and you still have a long life left in front of you you're life just like everyone elses will have it's ups and downs, don't let them get to you.

Just try and talk to a friend or someone close  

Answer 17

maybe giving your life story isn't such a bad thing.....you may well find somebody who is in the same place as you....and can offer support or point you in the right direction....

Answer 18

I know exactly what you're going through. The best advice I could give is to always make sure you're with someone when you're feeling that way e.g parents, family etc. And also to see you're GP so he can refer you to someone who can help you.

Answer 19

i had a sweet dream last night dude. barbra streisand was in it and uh...it was sexual goodness.

Answer 20

I got the same problem.. :( You can either live with the depression, or you can take it out with aggression! Try punching random thing's or destroying household appliances! It sound's immature and unpractical, but it work's for me. Or even some sport's help!