Feelings toward a friend. Kinda long but please help me?

Question

I have a friend named See. She is from Thailand. I met her junior year. I had noticed she would smile at me quite alot. I was int he library and was checking her out, she turned around and smiled at me.

Senior year my feelings grew. We would talk once in a while, but were always shy towards eachother.When Valentines came around I gave her a gift, when Christmas came around I gave her a gift. When prom came around I was to shy to ask her, so a friend asked for me, I was with him when he did it, she said yes.

We were at prom where she shed her innocent image. I experienced my first freak dance. She moved so fast, I could'nt keep up with her. Anyways during the summer we were messaging eachother over myspace. I told her I liked her, but she said she only liked me as a friend, she said If I was Hmong we could be together, I am Mexican.

I've tried to get over her, but all I have to do is see a picure of her or talk to her and my feelings come back. On her myspace profile she put she was in a realtionship, theres a friend she has that messages her and Im starting to think he likes her. He sent a message saying she was his tv and radio and all this. I recently told her that I still liked her. What should I do? Should I give up even though I cant? Should I ask her about this guy? WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?

Answer 1

All you can do is let it go .. You can't make her like you.

Answer 2

You have to give up.. and move on.  Keep her as a friend and who knows down the road if it is meant to be, it will be.  But you can't put your life on hold and hope she wakes up tomorrow and wants to be with you... you'll waste too many tomorrow's on something that might happen.  There are a lot of girls out there and I'm sure if you give it a chance, you'll find someone you like and that likes you back.