Feels like im never going to concieve , About to just give up . !?

Question

Ive been trying now for about 8 monthes ,Every month I just keep dissapointed and I just dont know , We both are pretty healthy , Im a tad bit over weight . But still . We have s*x on the ovulation days before and after . I take vitamins , I really just feel like im not going to be able to concieve , I worry about it and everything , I dont really stress my self out or nothing , But every month it seems like ill have signs and im just like fooling myself and im just I dont know , About to give up ! Any suggestions would be VERY appreciated

Answer 1

I was the same way. Im overwight I tohught Id never concieve. I started taking the one a day womens vitamins for 4-6 weeks and now Im 6 weeks. You cannot give up or it will never happen!

Answer 2

go to a doctor

they can tell you if there is something wrong

and if you dont want to adopt

then you could try fertilization.

there are many different options

Answer 3

Why not adopt?  The planet's wildlife will thank you for not making another human.

Answer 4

Hang in there! I know it can be discouraging. We were about to give up, and finally ended up pregnant! I had to talk to a doctor and found out that I had PCOS and wasn't ovulating. He put me on meds to help, but it still took a few months. It can take a healthy couple a year to actually concieve. Have you talked to a doctor yet? You might want too. S/he would be able to run tests and make sure everything is okay.

Good luck!

Answer 5

It took a few months for me to get pregnant the first time and when you are trying it seems like forever.  I decided that I was going to give up because it wasn't happening and then is when it happened.  Even if you don't think you are maybe you are getting too stressed out.  You can also have your doctor run a few tests to be sure everything is okay but just stop trying so hard and hopefully you will have a nice surprise.

Answer 6

listen sweety i am number one to hate hearing this but once you try and forget about something is when it seems to happen. have s*x with your hubby but try and make it fun, dress up, try new postions, wake him up with oral.. (morning sperm is the best). when you can draw yourself a bath and just lye in the tub clear your mind. then give your hubby a cup of coffee before s*x. use egg white as lubricant it acctually works and doesnt kill sperm it will acctualy help them get there faster and live longer. also speak to your doctor about natural things you can do.. but definatly try and get him relaxed cause if hes stressed it lowers his sperm count for sure. i hope i helped.

good luck..

Answer 7

I DONT THINK THAT YOU SHOULD GIVE UP...YOUR JUST SO ANXIOUS LIKE MY HUBBY AND I WERE..AND JUST WHEN WE THOUGHT WE COULD NOT CONCIEVE WE DID..JUST BE PATIENT DON'T WORRY AND KEEP TRYING...NO SOONER THAN WE STOP WORRYING ABOUT IT..IT HAPPENED...OR  YOU AND YOUR HUBBY TRY CONSULTING YOUR PHYSICIAN...GOOD LUCK GUYS!!!!

Answer 8

I know it can be very depressing, but don't give up , you can never try to hard to get pregnant!! me and my husband are also TTC and we've been praying a lot this month , i don't know yet if were pregnant but i have a feeling we are, try praying and you and your husband both should be taking vitamin supplements, sometimes it's not just the woman, but also the man with a fertility problem. try  for 4 more months with prayer, and if you still don't conceive , both of you go to the doctor and pray that GOD make your bodies fertile!!

hope this helped.

Answer 9

one word..ADOPT!!!

Answer 10

My situation sounded very similar to yours.  Both my husband and I are pretty healty and yes I could probably be about 10 lbs. smaller but still I was worried I wouldn't be able to conceive.  The 1st time I got pregnant I felt just like you as it had been 8 months, the doctor didn't seem too worried though as she felt like I shouldn't seek any fertility help unless I had been trying for a year or more.  Well shortly after my 8th month of trying I did conceive.  Unfortunately I ended up having a miscarriage, however after my D&C I was pregnant again 4 months later.  I know it can be frusterating but don't give up hope and be patient a little longer!