Fellas do u love ur missus?? is it normal to feel this way??

Question

im 21 an av a missus but but i still think of a girl i met when i was 16 i havnt seen her 4 2 years

i really liked her and i no for a fact she liked me but i blew her off she just got abit clingy with calls and texts

i used to see her most week ends she used to come up just to see me

but i never saw her after that if she really liked me why did she leave i told her i was with some1 so maybe she didnt want to but in

i no i was her first love

i rekon was mine

so do you guys still think about the first girl u liked and will u always have a soft spot 4 her even in a relationship ??

i do is it normal??

Answer 1

Hi mate, met a girl called Chris on a train to work in 1963 me 16 she 17 we went out for 5 months both first loves, she went on holiday to spain fell for the waiter , I got jealous as only a 16 year old can do, I married in 1970 and love my wife to bits , I still wake up as sigh for Christine, Ah! what would you do with out first loves memory's.

Answer 2

no u shouldnt be thinking of past relations if your present relationship is good, maybe you need to look at your relationship  

Answer 3

The grass always looks greener on the other side. You know what I mean - if you were with your ex girlfriend now, you would probably think she was too clingy and would dump her again. Forget her and stop looking at the finished relationship with "rose coloured glasses". You are only remembering the good times and conveniently forgetting the bad times. If you neglect your missus, she might start remembering past relationships as well and comparing them with you. Make the most of what you've got now - who knows how long it will last.

Answer 4

I too love my wife and she loves me too. I too seriously loved many girls before my marriage. When anyone decides about marriage, it has to be one girl only who meets most of Ono's  requirements. U simply make assumptions about life after marriage. Even though I'm most happy with my present life, I do miss all those girls with whom I shared good moments of life.  

Answer 5

Perfectly normal as long as it isn't obsessive.

I have a soft spot for my ex too; it's a peat bog in the South of Ireland.