Fellow Muslims: Do Muslim Guys And Girls Fall In Love?

Question

Its just hard to imagine i mean im muslim i can't imagine my parents actually "in love" they are stilled married and happy but like in love like you know...........eh im confused lolz

Answer 1

It happens,but ends with pain, so better not to be, before marriage.

Answer 2

My hubby and I are totally in love with each other, and the same with my first husband (sadly, love is not always enough).

@ Serenity -- That is so cute :)

Answer 3

Are you kidding me? Of course they do, my parents still give googly eyes to each other lol. everyone evnvies my parents relationship, but to me since i am their daughter, i find it disgusting lol. I hate to admit it, but i hope someday that i will be as happy as my parents are today.

Answer 4

yes we do fall in love...we are humans and humans fall in love no matter wat religion ure from

Answer 5

yes your obviously brainwashed by propoganda. why cant we fall in love. are we not human.

Answer 6

I was going to ask a similar question. Thank you sis.

I mean i think people do fall in love, but they dont always end up together. What happens then? I have no idea

Answer 7

I am in love!;-)

Answer 8

yes of course it happens all the time and has been happening since the beginning.  

Answer 9

You are raised in western culture. That is what confuses you.  Some do fall in love who get freedom to mix both genders.  

Most Muslims societies strictly seperate gender from mixing to keep their societies clean from the mess of  pre-marital s*x, pregnancies, abortions, high schools drop outs etc   Since most girls and boys stay in their own gender circles and marriages are arranged by parents, they fall in love with their husbands and wives instantly when they start living together after marriage. Because they are mentally trained and prepared to live their life this way.  If any one is known to have been loving some one and if their marriage doesn't materialize, then this boy or girl is defamed in society and no one else will want to marry such a boy or girl.

In Islam love is not pre-requisit for marriage.  It is the respect between husband and wife that is number one requirement for a couple to love togeher. A girl  complained to Prophet Mohammad that her parents married me  without showing my husband.  I found him very ugly after marriage. I don't like him all all and want divorce., Prophet immediately granted her divorce.  Parents must allow boy and girl to see each other and even let them converse in presence of some family member - a younger sister or brother. They must consent for marriage.  Marriage is not valid if the girl or boy were forced to marry.

But they can never be allowed to be alone  which gives them opportunity to start having s*x or something lesser than that.

Like high divorces  in west,  divorce rate is also high amongst the

couples who fall in love, run away from their home or pressure their parents for their marriage,  such couples have high divorce rate in Muslim countries.  Arranged marriage do not have very many divorces.

Because parents find the best boy in their judgment for their girls with education, raised by decent parents and whether he is compatible with the temperament and personality of their daughter.  This is way most of causes of divorces are eliminated and most marriages are

successful.

Answer 10

Sallam

This might shock u:

muslims are normal human beings,

and love is more then just what u c on TV.

Answer 11

that was the old days, i have never seen my parents even hug, i mean when my mom left to visit my grandma, for a month, my dad gave her a handshake, lol, im not sure if its just me, or everyone, or just arabs, lol.

but like i said b4

you get to know them----->you grow into knowing each other------>then to respecting each other------->then liking each other---->to eventually loving each other.

Answer 12

seems like most muslims marry for social status and economics rather than love so no.  

Answer 13

Yes we are still human! Shock :O

Answer 14

Yeah course they do, doesn't mean they have to portray it to everyone. My parents do love eachother their typical behaviour explains it like when my dad makes comments/ jokey kinda compliments about my mum she goes all red and shy...STILL!!!

Answer 15

yes i daily fall in love  

Answer 16

Everybody Has LOVE!!!!!

Doesnt mater......muslims LOVe to...........How do you think you were BORN???????

Answer 17

Dear,

Peace upon you.

Human being have instinct. the five Instinct and among the five is loving. All human being includes all Muslim have the instinct. Therefore anybody have love. The instinct of love are NOT ABSENT from any Muslims and all human being. Love to Al-Mighty God Allah Sunahanu Wata'ala the creator and and governor of the universe, created Jinns and mankind to worship HIM and made mankind as agent on earth. Love to Prophet and Apostle of Al-Mighty God Allah Prophet Muhammad Sallallahhu'alaihi Wassalam, Love towards Mother3 (3 time more than Father) and love towards Father. Love to all Muslim brothers and Sisters and maybe some to lovers.

My answer:-

Of course Muslim Guys and Girls Fall In Love.

Thank you.

Wabillahhitaufiq Walhidayah Wassalamu'alaikum Warahmatullahhi Wabarakatuh.

Answer 18

Some do, some dont/ People in arranged marriages probably take time to fall in love, if they ever do