Fellow g**s have you ever felt bad when a straight woman show interest in you but you have to let her down ?

Question

A woman that shows interest in you but you g*y. Or maybe a man who show interest in you but you're L*****n.

I've never been with a woman in a relationship or sexual.

I'm out but I guess it's not obvious by looking at me that I'm g*y.

I was flattered though. She was beautiful too.

Answer 1

Growing up, I pretty much had all female friends. (Probably because of my sexuality and that I felt awkward around males...) But, as a result, I had several of my very close female friends ask me out to dances, etc. I always declined, citing my distaste of school dances. When I finally came out to them my senior year in high school, they admitted to me that they had fallen in love with me.  

...Awkward...

But, I explained to them that while I was flattered by their statements, I could not return the romantic love because of my sexuality. I didn't really feel bad because I knew it was nothing I could control.

So, take it as a compliment. It most likely will not be your last.

Answer 2

OMG YEA!!! all the time! im not bragging or anything but it does happen allot. once a girl started crying!

Answer 3

No, I don't feel bad about it. After all, she would have been more upset  had I led her on. Also, one who I "let down" is now one of my closest friends.

Answer 4

I don't know if a straight woman ever showed interest in me, but I do know I'm always afraid women will think I'm hitting on them just because I'm so much more friendly with them.......

Answer 5

Yes i feel bad, but its also kinda funny at the same time. lol

Answer 6

Well that kinda happened when I was during my "Confusion" stage but I really didnt feel bad because I didnt know what was going on with me.

Answer 7

YES.

that happened to me,

her name was mayghen, & she was so beautiful,

but i wasn't attracted to her o' course.

& she was like hitting on me

& I had to tell her , sorry i don't go that way

(i didn't say it like that:P)

she seemed sad. It made me deppressed for like ever.

I hate turning people down. it makes me sad inside :(

Answer 8

no, i felt relieved that i wouldn't have to spend time with a woman

Answer 9

I find it easy, almost like game.