Female HYPOCRISY at its BEST?

Question

A while ago I posted a question about men having s*x with women and never calling back. MOST women agreed that if a man LEADS a woman to believe he wants more than s*x and she sleeps with him... he's a USER if he leaves and never calls back.

ok.. are you with me so far? It's important that you understand that first paragraph.

NOW.. how can a woman say that... THEN turn around and say THIS... AND I QUOTE:

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"Nobody used anybody. It's easy for people to say "she should have told him from the start that she wasn't interested", but frankly, it's not easy to be that mean to another person to their face.

Furthermore, the idea that a woman supposedly owes a man s*x just for doing her a few favors is bullsh*t. It's a FAVOR, the person whom you are doing it for does not owe you anything. It was HIS choice to do the favors, and it's not like there is some rule out there that says if a man does favors, a woman has to sleep with him."

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Who do YOU agree with?

Answer 1

I don't think I really understand what you're asking, but I'll try to answer. I honestly think that if a woman has s*x with a guy who leads her on, and then he just kind of runs off, she couldn't have known him too well in the first place.  By not knowing im well enough in the first place, that is her own fault. I mean sure, he was an *** for doing what he did, but she was stupid to sleep with a guy she barely knew.

Answer 2

HOnesty is the best policy no matter what..everything else is simply guessing and game playing

Answer 3

I agree with the second paragraph of the quote - a man is not entitled to s*x just because he did a favor for a woman.  

People do use people though.  Honestly is always the best policy, some people just don't have the balls to be honest.

Answer 4

Both situations are just a gamble that they will get something back for their favors.  Gamblers usually lose.

Answer 5

I think we females are a bit confused right now.  We have feminine rights like freedom of s*x, sexual revolution, yet...Our hearts long for old school commitment like marraige and married s*x.  Maybe I should speak for myself.  All these freedoms women have a great, but at the same time damaging.  We have to work harder, go dutch, s*x without commitment, competion, and on and on.  Women and men should compliment each other not compete.  But all these freedoms and movements have really f---ed up stuff.  I dont mean accept abuse and someone using you, but while getting our freedom we sometimes made ourselfves-free.

Answer 6

You can't say it's 'female hypocrisy' because it's ONE quote from ONE person.

Of course they are a user if they aren't straight with the person.

Answer 7

I agree with neither .he obviuosly just wanted s*x if he never called back and the claim that trading favers for s*x isnt being used is full of c**p

people should be emotionally honest whether male or female

feeling you owe s*x to someone for being a decent human being is a degrading form of prostition

A man has to truely care about me as a person before we have mutually agreed on s*x not just some stranger toF**K

so  of course he is a user if he doesnt care enough to call back

good s*x is about love and mutual respect and the sitions above reflect neither so in my opinion it is all people using other people

Answer 8

I at least tried to give this guy a chance before I wrote him off completely. Had I not, I would have been acting on prejudice thoughts -- the only relationship that I could feign with him was the one we had.

Answer 9

Any MATURE (keyword) woman knows that you do not accept favors from a man you are not interested in. Any woman who does accept favors under such circumstances is a user who is EXPLOITING the situation. When someone is not your friend, you dont accept favors, and if you suspect someone wants something from you that you arent willing to give, then if you are an honest person you will be up front about it. But that takes integrity, and some people just dont have it!

Answer 10

A lot of women seem to be under the impression that men will only do a woman  a favor as a way to later get into her pants. Believe it or not, not all men have s*x on their minds 100% of the time. Some of us are actually repectful towards women but women seem unsure how to react to such a guy since a lot of them think that guys are only out for s*x.

Answer 11

I agree with anyone who says that s******g someone and then trying to ignore them without so much as a "see ya" is a user.

Answer 12

I agree with you, however it is difficult to be mean to an extent.  Allowing him to buy you a drink is much different than leading him on for the sole purpose of s*x.