Females, have you had an abortion?

Question

If so, speak about your experience.

Answer 1

get one at the earliest stage possible ...  

Answer 2

my aunty got rapped when she 15 she had an abortion a she wanted a strong carear and all that, Shes now 43 and still hasnt had another child as the termination went wrong and messed her all up inside. She would of made an absolute brilliant parent and would do anything to have kids with her partner whos shes been with for 22 years.

it wrecked her life really.

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Answer 3

i did. i have 4 children and my youngest was 10 months old. i really didnt want to do it but after talking about it with my husband we decided that we cannot afford another baby. its a real hard decision to make and only you can make this decision. never let anyone push you into making this decision. i was about 5 weeks pregnant and the procedure was fast. i went in at 8 am, finished my paperwork at 8:30, was called in the back at 8:45, did blood work, sonograms and then waited for the doctor . i went in at 10 am was given anesthesia fell asleep within seconds and woke up 10 minutes later. sometimes i still think about my baby, wondering if it was the right decision to make, wondering what he/she would look like. but deep in my heart i know that it was the right decision to make. some people wont understand, i cannot use condoms as im allergic to rubber, birth control has been a headache to find which ones work best with me. overall it wasnt too bad but if your not ready mentally then dont do it.  also dont do it in the second /third trimester. its too much, it becomes a 2-3 day procedures, they stick seaweed sticks inside of you to dilate you so when they do the abortion theres more room to take the baby out. first trimester abortions are 1 day procedures, they are quick and painless. also do your homework on the doctor/clinic. you dont want to get messed up after its done. im pro-choice but i dont believe in abortions as a method of birth control. i know woman that get one every other month. one girl i knew had 6 in one year. that pissed me off. if your gonna do one then let be for the right reasons, not the wrong.

Answer 4

I haven't but I'm not totally against them.

Pro Choice.

Answer 5

NO, im sorry but i am so against them, there are other options. but its your life

Answer 6

I personally have never had an abortion I don't believe in them there are so many childless couples out there that want a baby. i do know of some that have and it bothers them they think about the baby and how they should not have done it.

Answer 7

I am pro abortion but I wouldn't do it myself. I mean I would if I got raped or something but I would wonder how my life could have been with the baby. It would be like a miscarriage to me. But whatever. As I said before I'm pro choice so whatever you chose is fine

Answer 8

Abortion is a sin.  It's killing a defenseless living child inside the womb.  It's purely evil.

Answer 9

I have not, but a close family friend has. She spoke about it at church one evening. At first she felt alright about it. She went on with everyday life. She started remembering when the childs birthday would been so on and so forth wondering what her child might be like. It was very emotional for her after she did have children and to this day she regrets it. Adoption is a better alternative. Just knowing you the baby a better life rather than killing it. Have read about how they do it...its sick.

Answer 10

My mother has had an abortion.

She didn't tell me though, when she borrowed my bag i found a letter in it telling me about her miscarriages, abortions etc.

I hate her for it, would have loved a baby brother or sister.

What makes me more angry is that she been having unprotected s*x.

She didn't even have a boyfriend at the time. Tart.

xx