Feminist women: character traits, orientation and social role of your ideal partner ?

Question

Feminist women : What would be the character traits, orientation and social role of your ideal partner if you had a free choice or could model him after your imagination ?

Answer 1

i would have to say... hes be taller that me (which is pretty unrealistic), dark hair, light eyes, muscles (but not body builder eek scary!) hed have to be really funny and outgoing but compassionite and caring. and he has to love shopping. also, he shouldnt always think about making out and stuff like that. anything else....... hm....... oh oh he has to like me for ME! not only my body. well, he should still think im pretty.

i agree with mudkip am too. he does have to be a little argumentive and not a mommas boy cause i too like to fight a little!

Answer 2

Strong (and I'm not talking about muscles), intelligent, capable, nice, apart from that... I guess I'll know when I meet him...  although in terms of orientation- he's gotta be a straight man- and I mean a MAN.  If I wanted a relationship with a woman, I would be a L*****n.

Answer 3

My guy is fun; high-energy; extroverted; intelligent; sensual; mature; talkative; and expressive. He is kind and fair and I'm lucky to be with him. We don't play the gender role game so we don't have to deal with any of that drama-thank goodness.

Answer 4

Intelligent, stubborn, argumentative... I want someone I can have lengthy conversations with.

Answer 5

I would like my future boyfriend/husband to be strong, ambitious, compassionate, and intelligent. I like to read and like to discuss politics so I would love a good debate and discussion about those matters. Also, a man that knows how to hunt would be greatly appreciated. I'm planning to be a lawyer so I would want my husband to have a career as well whether it be in medicine, business, or law too. Most important quality is that he and I will be equal partners in everything.

Answer 6

Intelligent, educated, adventurous, humorous, well-read, well-traveled, sexually sophisticated, comfortable with himself and without a speck of misogyny, homophobia or racism.

Answer 7

She is strong, intelligent, beautiful, amazing really.

Answer 8

I like him the way he is now. He doesn't have to change that drastically. (Although I would appreciate it if he didn't laugh at everything the way he seems to.)

Answer 9

I always liked guys with long hair, lovely eyes and a soft mouth. I wanted someone who loved and cared for me, who understood me and who I could spend my life with.

I was with someone for twenty years but for a lot of them I didn't have that person, they changed once they realised I wasn't their mum and when he was forced by circumstance to be at home fulltime too.

I didn't realise what I really needed is what I have now. Someone who understands my sense of humour, beliefs and background. Someone who picks me up when I am down and who lets me support them. Someone of my own age group. We could happily be together 24/7 even if we are doing separate things. We laugh and cry together. We have dealt with serious issues but we can also be big kids.

This person completes me in all ways we just work together.

They have the long hair, gorgeous eyes and soft mouth but there is an added side to them that I didn't think that I would have to deal with...they are transgendered and it's wonderful.

Love is precious and should be grabbed regardless of what disguise it arrives in.

Answer 10

The better question is what type of man would marry a feminist?

This is their guy: a homosexual.

John Stoltenberg is the typical man married to a feminist, a homosexual man who hates masculinity.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Stolte...

Answer 11

I married him. : ) no need to wish.

Answer 12

i would love for him to be sweet, outgoing, funny, but knows how to be serious, kind, loving, an all around good guy, not a s*x freak, likes me for me and not my body.

nothing else really matters to me.