Feminists, If both you and your partner bring home beans, who looks after the children?

Question

I'd really like to know.

If you leave your children at daycare, does this not prove that you are a less of a women because you can't care for your kids? Not only that, it's neglect!

What do you think?

Answer 1

oh no he did'unt

Answer 2

Answer:  people who look after the children make minimum wage, are disgruntled workers and might apt to have a criminal record.  Oh and the child might get raped.

Answer 3

the nanny I dare guess, as the Feminist is to uppidy to get her hands dirty, middle class wannabies

Answer 4

I think it funny how it's always men bleating on about bad mothers going to work, leaving kids in daycare blah blah blah.

Yet, she stays at home to look after her children and claims benefits then she's a tax dodging layabout?

It would certainly be a perfect world if one parent working could make enough money for the whole family, but life isn't perfect is it?

Answer 5

Feminists say the want men to do equal work at home, until the feminist files for divorce, then the feminist claims that the mother should always get custody of the child.

See the new blog --- http://clearblogs.com/feministfraud/

Answer 6

Rio

-"Besides which, being able to care for children is no longer an essential part of being a woman."

Haha... honey, you better be lucky most don't agree with that.  

- If that's true, then the only use for women would be 'using their sexuality to generate revenue for men'. In your world all women would either be "waitresses" or "prostitutes".

Answer 7

I think since women enter the job market we have seen a dramatic increase in moral degradation. All because men have to compete with women an the affairs with men that tear the family apart even more. I don't have any figures this is just my opinion but... I bet there is proof there.

I do think a good help would be company having in house day cares.

Answer 8

The children have to look after themselves.

Or, the neighbors who have the little terrors thrust into the neighborhood.

Answer 9

Good luck with this one.

Answer 10

They both do, after day care. This is not neglect; this is ensuring that they are in the hands of a responsible adult. Would you rather that the children were just left at home alone?

Besides which, being able to care for children is no longer an essential part of being a woman.

Answer 11

you should both take ure turns,and if all u r intereted in is money money money,then u shouldn`t have had kids.........

Answer 12

Exactly what do you think children do at daycare...hard labor? They play together, do activities, do artwork, learn, have books read to them, go for walks.

My daughter adores me.

I adore her.

She loves daycare.

I enjoy my career.

And why is this your business?

Answer 13

definitely the woman

Answer 14

I'm less of a woman because my son went to a sitter for half an hour before walking to school with her and her kids?  For going to her house to play for an hour before I got home from work?  And I work why?  So that when that $400+ school trip to Montreal came along I could afford for my kid to go.  So he could play hockey and baseball instead of becoming one of those bored kids who's always in trouble.  So he could have a least a few of the right clothes and fit in (even if he never had a closet full).  So that we could take him on holidays to interesting places.  So that he could take music lessons.  So that we could entertain and fill our home with family and friends.

My husband makes plenty of money to keep us fed and a roof over our heads but we would all have missed out on some great things if I hadn't worked.

What do I think?  WHAT DO I THINK???

I think, you sir, are an a.s.s.!