Feng Shui - Our Bedroom - I am east and my husband is west?

Question

We are moving and I want to try setting up our new home using feng shui. To start, our bedroom. Windows both East and West, door to hall and door to bathroom both South. He is West metal 6 and I am East fire 9? Oppisites create balance... but our bedroom?! Our wall choices are feet facing south, east, or west. From all I have read one of us is doomed. Please help! Our new jobs and healing relationship need it!

Answer 1

the best thing to do is get a fengshui practitioner to do an audit.

first, you need to decide who earns more, you or your husband - the kitchen/ stove can be faced and located in favor to the breadwinner. bec it is the kitcehn that attracts the money.

second, the bedroom is given in favor to the other party. but the bed is positioned to have a lesser evil/ bad for both parties as each person has 4 good and 4 bad directions. of 4 good, 1 is best and of the 4 bad, 1 is worst.

third, you can optimize 8 mansions/ east-west concept by using it with flying stars. for this, you need a fengshui practitioner, he will know what area in your house is good for the bedroom and the kitchen. or he can tilt your main door to shift the good chi towards your bedroom.

i must note that fengshui generally can only do 2 things: 1. attract wealth, 2. enhance health. it cannot enhance relationship.

third, you can also use advanced methods to activate good chi in your home by having an aerated aquarium (fish is not important, as long as the water is moving by use of the aerator; and the emphasis here is that it must be located at an area with good chi; if it is located in an area where the bad chi is, even if you put it there unknowingly by mistake, then the bad thing can happen.). there is many concepts within water placement method.

but my fengshui teacher always say that you must always go for the money, bec with money, you can always buy good health and make life easier.

Answer 2

I would suggest to give priority to whom is earning more or has the most important job. So, for 9 fire, you should sleep with your head pointing to the South and if it is for 6 metal, it should be West, as those are the best directions out of the 4 favorable directions.

But as you belong to opposite group, the choice should be the least unfavorable for the one of you sleeping in a bad direction. This would be the Nort-east for the 9 fire or the South-east for the 6 metal.

Another point to take into account is the house. Analyze in which sector of the house is your bedroom to see for whom it is best.

And, after deciding, you should use the characteristics of the  element (as color for example) to improve the personal element for whom is in a bad direction, that would be wood for the 9 fire and earth for the 6 metal.

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