Fiance always thinks I'm pregnant...?

Question

My fiance and I have talked about having children one day and have decided to start trying in March. (The wedding is in September) We are both excited about becoming parents, but have decided to hold off for now unless God has different plans for us. The thing is every time we have s*x, he thinks I'm pregnant. We use the "pull out method" and we have for 3 years now. So we are not trying for a baby, but a baby would also be welcome if it came. We thought I was pregnant once, but I was just stressed and late. He was fine through the whole experience and even talked about the things we could do if I was pregnant. I just don't know what to make of him always thinking I'm pregnant... He will tell me almost weekly that I'm pregnant, half jokingly, half serious. I guess it doesn't really matter, I am just curious if anyone knows why he keeps saying this.

Answer 1

wow sounds like he wants to be a daddy so badly..

just talk to him and tell him that these is stressing you out, with the thought of you beeing pregnant..tell him time will come. ..take a chill pill.

do it when your ready

Answer 2

We have no idea why he says this- nor do some of us have nay idea why you don;t just wait until after the wedding to do the deed, and use birth control until then.

Answer 3

sOUNDS LIKE HE WANTS A BABY ALREADY....

Answer 4

just seems like he's really excited and ready to be a dad.  When it's time for you BOTH he will.

Answer 5

Sounds like he is making you crazy. The idea is to enjoy making a baby.Practicing is fun and the stress of did I, didn't I, would be insane. Just talk to him and explain that he shouldn't expect anything until there is a definate confirmation.

Answer 6

Men have this internal desire to procreate.  

He wants kids.