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Fiance and I are having issues and I need help!!!?

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My fiance of 3 yrs and i are having some relationship issues. I moved out and back to my parents house for a few months so i can get my life together and then in 6 mon-1 yr he and i were supposed to move back in together and live happily ever after. Today is exactly 2weeks that i have been moved out and now he is telling me that he isn't sure if this is what he wants because we argue so much. I told him i would work on my issues, because love him and i want everything to work, but he isn't sure how he feels. He said we can be friends no matter what decision he makes, but that's hard to believe since we are 3 hrs away and i feel like i'm going crazy just dealing with all of this. 4 days ago he told me how he felt and since then then i can't eat or sleep. He is all i think about. I am nausea's and feel awful. What can i do to keep my mind off of him and how can i prepare myself to hear him say that he doesn't want to make this work. If there is anything else i can do or say to help him make up his mind please let me know. This is the man i planned on marrying. I love him more than life it's self andi thought he felt the same way. After 3 yrs how can he just chane his mind like that? I asked him if i never left would he of still felt this way and he said probably not, cuz with me there he wouldn't see how it is without me.

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  1. This is not just about YOUR Issues, it's about His Issues also. It sounds to me like he's not willing to make it work. Truth be, when a Man or Woman reacts this way to another, you can best believe that he/she has "another" person already in place. I am sure after 3 years of working on this Relationship and your Love for this man, you don't want to call it quits, but you have moved out and he's moving on and thats what you should do now. I know you Love him and it hurts, but if hes not on the same page as yourself, your wanting this, will not make it happen..One day you will look back and realize he was never the one for you...Best of Luck...


  2. It is a good thing you found this out now and not two weeks after you were married. It sounds like he is wanting to move on and that might be for the best......You deserve better.

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