Fiance and I fighting weeks before wedding.?

Question

My fiance and I are fighting a lot. I don't even know what it's about. He just starts yelling at me and cursing me over stupid stuff. Like he doesn't like how I wrote an email to his mom or that I didn't do dishes yesterday and we fight and don't speak all night. Our wedding is weeks away and he's treating me worse and worse. What should I make of this?

Answer 1

Ya u should have a heart to heart talk with him. I know its lame for guys to express their feelings -they gotta play "macho"- but maybe he just needs to relieve some steam. Mayb u guys should work out together or something. That helps me and my fiance. Hope it all works out! :)

Answer 2

i think that you are both probably pretty nervous and that you are just taking out your stress on each other.  I would talk to him about it...he may not even know he is doing it!  Work things out before its too late!

Answer 3

Sounds like stress to me, about the wedding.

I would sure sit him down and have  a long talk..Communication is the key to any relationship, and you need to start now...If he wont talk, let him know this is making you feel very nervous about the wedding, and most of all the marriage.

Maybe you guys need to get a break before the wedding from each other...and see if that helps..like maybe one of ya stay with a parent or a friend, just to see if that helps at all. You have the rest of your life to live together...

If he wont or dont change...think real hard about the marriage. its forever.

Im here if ya need to chat..just email me..

Hope this helps..

Take care

Answer 4

Normal.  It's stress and nerves due to the upcoming wedding.  Both my husband and I were like that, so we're some members of our wedding party.  We all just had to keep reminding ourselves to take a few minutes to calm down.

Make sure that you make sure to spend some alone time with your fiance where you're not doing or talking about anything wedding related.

Answer 5

Sounds like he is getting nervous about the wedding.  Talk to him about it.  His behavior needs to be straightened out before the wedding day.

Answer 6

Sounds like just stress and nerves.

Answer 7

sounds like he's stressed about the wedding. Cold Feet?? you should chat with him about it and smooth the wrinkles.