Fiancee's parents paid $30k for Narconon...its a hoax how should I get her OUT safely?

Question

I have a girlfriend of 3 years who has been addicted to vicodin. She went to Narconon, which her parents paid 30k yesterday. After more research, I WANT HER OUT NOW. We have spent nights apart before, that isn't the issue. The issue is the scientology, the length of time (1month-1 year), and quite simply I don't want her there getting filled with that c**p. HOW DO I GET HER OUT WITHOUT STEPPING ON ANYONE'S TOES?????

Answer 1

Narconon is most effective drug rehab program out there. The same program is used by the federal government. Let your GF finish her program  is the best. Don't be so selfish.

Answer 2

To clarify someone else's post - Narconon is not affiliated with the 'Anonymous' programs. It's an expensive, rip-off program devised by scientology, based on very poor science with some rather dangerous practices mixed in. The name was chosen to steal the air of respectability that the anonymous programs have built up over decades. Independent studies have shown their success rate to be essentially non-existent.

As to getting her out, there's not much you can do. If she's an adult, she can leave whenever she wants to - they can't make her stay. If she's a minor there's not much you can do, she's the responsibility of her parents - However, you may call child protective services and get them involved. Basically, you're going to have to step on toes. You can share the information you've gotten with her parents and hope they'll respond reasonably. If they don't, then contact her and share it with her. If she's a minor, and I'm guessing by the context of this post that she is, I would involve CPS.

Answer 3

whats Narconon lol

Answer 4

narconon as with alanon are organizations suppossadily to help people who have partners or family members with addiction problems however if she is in narcotics anonomous then it is best she stay there as well . whats this 30000.00 she better stay

Answer 5

What you did was probably googled it and hit the sites that supported your preconceived disagreement with her being away from you and out from under your thumb. Some boyfriend you are if you've let her be addicted for 3 years and have done nothing to handle it. I can see then why you'd disagree with her getting clean and resolving the reasons she started taking them in the first place.  

If you REALLY love her, you'll be happy for her being able to rehab her life.

Go to Narconon yourself and get the brochures. Finish your research properly.

Answer 6

so si she your fiancee or girlfriend?? also, if she wants out and you think she should come out it is really up to her but only if you honestly believe she doesn't need help, unless you're going to get her alternative help. It also depends on your age, are you and her adults?  It is a tough one for sure though, her addiction is obviously bad enough that her parents know, but maybe your idea is to get her another form of help. I do think that if you do make the move and take her out that you are stepping on toes and with create issues between you and her parents so if you're willing to risk that then I guess do it if you feel its absolutely necessary, but realize that you are not helping her addiction which in the long run will affect your relationship very negatively. good luck, you have a lot to think about before doing anything, sorry I couldn't give you a flat out answer but thats really a final decision to be made by you after weighing ALL options.

Answer 7

If you really care about your girlfriend you will go along to one of the graduations at Narconon and see people graduating the program.

Narconon has a very effective program that gets people off drugs.  Find out more about it before you try and ruin one of her best chances to come clean.