Fiancee and I are moving but..?

Question

So my fiancée found a pace to move to. It’s a friend of the family's duplex. We are getting married next June but the duplex maybe be available now. It’s a good price and nice area. We are okay with moving in before we are getting married. My mom, I don’t think, wants us to move in (but it’s my life!). So when I call the owners to see what’s going on and I told my mom she was like don’t call, don’t call. Don’t worry the lady. I am just afraid she will call at the end of July and say we can move in on the 1st, then we will have to come up with the $$ real quick. We are planning a wedding so all our funds are watched. Do you think I should say something to my mom, who is not helping pay for much, and continue to pursue the new place? Or let it go and not bother the people again? BTW, I have only called once; all other communications have been done via text. Today I texted because I hadn’t heard from them, I just said hey checking in about the place. Thanks! So what do you think? I don’t think my mom is right, just because she knows the people I think she feels different then if it was someone she doesn’t know.

Answer 1

If you're over 18, then don't worry about what your mother says. It's not a parent-child situation anymore, and you no longer need her approval! You are an adult, so it's time to make adult decisions without her. If you like the place, pursue it.