i don't really understand where all the animosity between them started from as they used to get along really well. but the past year has seen them go from friends to absolutely hating one another.
my mum has threatened not to come to the wedding, she hit my fiancee over the head with a rolling pin, tried to kick my lady out of my brothers birthday, gone to my mother in laws house and tried to get violent with her, called my father in law in australia and told him my MIL was whoring around, told one of my lady's bridesmaids she couldn't be a bridesmaid, tried to change my lady's dress design, last week she called our reception venue and tried to cancel our booking, so many bloody things i can't remember them all.
my lady love, she tries to keep it all from me but my brothers have filled me in on everything. i've asked her to tell me about it and she tells me not to worry my mum is just letting her know she loves me. she keeps brushing it off as if nothing is wrong, she's told me that it doesn't matter what my mum does because at the end of the day she's marrying me not my mum. i know my lady, she has a short temper and all this stuff that has been going on is just building up. she will snap soon.
i hate to admit it but i blame my mum, i know when my lady gets angry she can say some terrible things but she has to be provoked before she does. my mum has always had a nasty streak in her and when it comes out she doesn't care who it's aimed at.
my lady love and i get married in november. i've asked my lady if she wants my mum at the wedding and she says of course she does but i know she's just saying that for me. my lady is the most important person in my life, she's the other half of my soul. my mum is my mum. i love her to death. but it's getting to the point where i feel i have to choose between them. if i do, i won't be choosing my mum.
someone please help me.
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