Fifth grade to junior year?

Question

Me and my fiance have been dating for 6 years and I'm pregnant(with him don't worry). We're engaged. Is that too short of a time?

Answer 1

Not in my opinion. I know a couple who dated for only 4 months and have been married for 5 years now. Stay in school though, it is hard but possible to finish school and start a family at the same time. My wife and I done it but it was hard.

Answer 2

First of all Congrats!!

Secondly, you've been together a long time, longer than  most people who have babies together but... you are so very young.

Your youth will make it so incredibly harder since you still are learning to control emotions etc. Just stay in school and support each other. It can be done. This way is just harder but you can do it.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Only if your a junior in high school... cause umm thats a little young to be having s*x, gettin pregnant, and gettin married. But I guess if you love him.... Wait are you the chic who is mad because he is scared to become a father at 17? Cause that really crappy if you can post questions about it why cant he?

Answer 4

my husband and i dated 4 months before we were married and we have been together for 9 years.  but we were older and out of school.  do i think 6 years is to short of time to date before getting married? no.  do i think you are to young? yes.

Answer 5

what?

Answer 6

If you're pregnant in 11th grade, it's a little late to be worrying about that isn't it?

Answer 7

The length of time you have been dating is fine, it's having the child that is going to be difficult. You may have been dating since you were 11 years old but are you emotionally ready for a child? Is he? Do you have family support? Having a child is a great deal of responsibility and I am not condoning you or trying to encourage you in a different way (I was 18 when I had my first and delivered my last by the time I was 21 and became a stepmom to an 11 year old at 24) I just want you to understand that this child has got to become your main priority, no matter what your fiance may chose to do once the responsibility of the situation hits him. I hate to sound negative, especially since I do not know your young man, but please be prepared for the worst and hope for the best. There is a distinct possibility you may be taking care of this child on your own (either for a short bit until panic decreases or permantly). I wish you the best of luck and all the world to your child and as negative as I have made this sound, the baby is a blessing and congratulations.

Answer 8

WooWoo!

CONGRATULATIONS!

What a marvelous event!