Fighitng a bully?

Question

yes i am in school becuase im from england. a bully keeps picking on me i think the best way to stop him is to fight him. i think i can beat him but when im about to fight i chicken out and run away can you guiys help me come over my fear of fighting and so i can kick the bullys @r$e

Answer 1

Just know that if you don't stand up for yourself he'll only keep doing it. Even if you lose the fight, he will not mess with you again. Make sure you only fight when it is absolutely necessary and in self defense. If at all possible, talk things out. I'd fight first and talk late, but I'm highly trained.

Answer 2

self hypnosis, search it and do it. works for me

Answer 3

Well, I'll answer this as if it's a legit question...

... I had a bully in school while I was a high red belt in Tae Kwon Do.  I was only 11 and high red is the highest belt you can get before you can get a black belt, and I definitely could've taken this kid down, but all my training taught me that what I knew was for self-defense.  I actually got suspended because this kid starting to swing on me and i blocked everything he threw and never retaliated.  It literally was like a martial arts movie where the martial artist is laughing at the idiot who has no clue how moronic he looks.  

I would also do poorly at tournaments.  I would kill at form and board breaking but just be ridiculous at sparring.  To this day, I still don't see the purpose of fighting.  However, I know that if anyone attacks me, I'm well prepared to defend myself.  

If I were you, I'd take my parents advice.  Some parents say, "don't back down from the bully and be a man," and others say, "fighting is for dummies."  In my experience, if you need to gain a little respect, then you can go the route I went, I didn't run away, but I stood there and defended myself without running away(although, I still got unjustly suspended) or you can actually fight him.  I don't condone fighting, especially if you know you're much more capable of whooping his ***.

BUT, if you really feel like you need to fight this kid, then make sure you win without hurting him too badly.  You always need to make sure you get in the first punch, which is hard to do when you're afraid to fight, but believe me, if he starts talking smack, just punch hum right in the face or ribs and he may not even fight back.  If he does fight back, just be patient, and strike one or two more times when the moment is right.  Do not try to pulvarize the kid and do not punch him when he's defensless, but if you need to punch him to show him that you're not afraid of him then do so.  

This could set off a trend of self-confidence for you and a trend of humiliation for the bully or vice-versa, but I'd rather see you with the confidence that the loser bully.

Remember, it's not a sucker punch if the fight's going to happen anyway.  Someone has to start the fight, why get punched first?

Answer 4

Hi mate im from england too. one thing in the news alot now is people kinfing other people, so it kind of depends what guy this is, so if you are from london were according to the news most of the stabbings happen i would probably say just leave it. if ur not from the london area and you are 99.99% that the only thing he will do to you punch and kick this is what you want to do....

either wait for some of you mates to be with you, so they can take on his mates. (cos its unusual for a bully to bully when hes by himself or at least in my experience ) or wait till he is by him self walk towards him lift your leg fast and thrust it into is lower abs hard anf fast then u have won the fight as he will bend over in pain and can do what ever you want.

ok about chicken-ing out, i will tell you what i did once at school. i was taking a wee and some ti t took his belt off and started wipping me with it. now at school i wasnt violent, i didnt get into trouble and i was never in fights. i was anger and focused. and i kick him around the playground. another time i was in a fight sme guy in my year punched me in the stomach hard from no reason, i saw him again and my blood boiled and again kicked him around the room. anger has always been my fuel to fighting as a kid. (ps at that point i had  never done martial arts).

so i suggest get anger and just go for it .

oh another way i delt with a bully at school waited till he was at the top of a flight of stairs and then kicked him down them. as soon as he was at the bottom i was on top of him and said this is going to end between be and u other wise things are going to get very physical, and its not going to end well for you. followed by a punch in the stomach, and walk off. i like this method cos u done have to do anything the stairs and gravity do the work for you and there is almost no way you can chicken out. you done have to end by hitting him u just need to make sure he knows its you, and either stand at the top of the stairs and smile, or something so he knows he a lost.

(note, always tell a teacher a parent an older brother or sister etc. and become an out cast and break the rules of the playground) saying that tell friends and a bro or sis what is happening(u are getting bullied not what u are going to do) so they can back up your story if u get in trouble for what u do.

Good Luck mate!!!

Answer 5

next time he starts something send him to the hospital, If you doubt you can do that with your hands use a club!  He must learn sometime.  If you don't teach him someone else will have to do it.  All bullies understand is force so you must force him to believe it is unwise to mess with you.

Answer 6

smart moves by 'y98rober...'

To win a fight, other than mental aggressiveness, you need 3 factors in order of importance.

1. Intelligence and cunnings

2. Power

3, martial art.

Pushing the guy down the stairs can be considered as option one. I would get a boxing bag, do gym, get more power, also, do boxing or kick boxing, these are simple system where you can learn a lot of things in a short period of time.  Train as if you are going to fight tomorrow. Look up some training tips in my previous answers. If you are in trouble at the begining before you are have acquire good skills, your best defence is to attack and keep on attacking. Deception is the key. You can even go..."can we work something......" jab him in the nose and follow by a cross. and non stop punching him. be careful,  don't exhaust yourself. that is why you have to box the boxing bag and do endurance training. Try to hit the bag non stop for 30 seconds. Train 3 hours a day. 1.5 hour  in the morning and 1.5 hour at night time.

Answer 7

if your really feed up with this punkb*tch and down to chunk'em (fight) then go up 2 him and sock that sucka as hard as u can n the nose and keep swinging as hard as u can in his face but when u go up 2 him don't make it seem like your going to hit him.believe me as long as he don't know u should get the better of him.

WARNING!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF U DON'T HIT HARD DON'T BE SURPRIZED IF HE WHOPPS THAT @SS.AS LONG AS U TRIED THATS WHAT ME AND MY HOMIES CALL HEART

i hope u take my advice and put hands on dude cuz i hate bullys