First Kiss Issues???

Question

Okay,

So,

This is my first boyfriend,

And we have decided to kiss today.

And I`m really nervous,

I WANT to.

I just,

Don`t know how to...

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So,

How do you kiss a guy well??

He has kissed girls before,

Like,

Pashed them.

And I don`t want it to french kiss him,

Just a peck,

But how do I explain that to him?

Answer 1

Look just go with the flow when you force the kiss it comes out wrong. everything will be OK.  

Answer 2

Just kind of go with the flow, let it happen.  Don't go too fast and don't use too much tongue. Follow his lead

Answer 3

Ah,...okay, well, first of all you need to start it, lean over and kiss him, silently explain to him by not saying anything. Confusing? Yeah, just a little, but if you keep your lips closed, he should get it. The hole thing will be awkward to you, but you need to be the one in control, if he tries to go up a level, pull away, and then tell him you want nothing more than a peck. If you don't want to go through all that, make it short. just peck and back up, than, he won't even be able to think about it.

Answer 4

ok first what i have to say is dont plan the kiss let it happen  when it suprises you its so much better plus it makes you realize how much you like that person and just tell him you just want a peck

Answer 5

basically, the key is to be relaxed

make sure you have gum or mints so youre not worrying about the breath issue, and you could put some chapstick on to smooth out your lips (but not lipgloss right before cause it gets all sticky!)

and just explain to your boyfriend that you want to take it slow. he'll understand.

PS shut your eyes while kissing, cause staring just gets creepy

Answer 6

i had my first kiss last year and at first it was intimidating but it was also very nice.

there really isn't a right way to kiss a boy. as long as you kiss his lips your good.

here's a few tips.

*make sure you are in a comfortable environment

*good breath?

*close your eyes and pucker your lips

*lean in and just kiss him(it only has to be a peck)

wait about 2 days before really like making out

only make out if you want to

and hun i didnt know how either but i just did it and he said i was a really good kisser. i was surprised but relieved

Answer 7

i think the 1st kiss should come naturally. if u feel uncomfortable about it then don't do it.

Answer 8

1. tell him that your not into the hole french kissing thing and tell him that im not sure how  to as will so i really want to kiss you but plz no french kissing `im not ready and if he is a ture boyfriend he will understand.  

good luck :)