First Real Date Help From Guys !!!

Question

I am a 13year old Girl and I am going on my first date tomarrow we aare going roller skaing and I wanna kiss him and hold his hand and everything but dont know if he wants to or not and I am kinda scared and when its the couple skating we have to hold hands but I dont know how to kiss him ... any ideas... it will be our first kiss and ..... I heard he gets a lot of boners... how would u want ur girlfriend to react ? And rember were only 13

Answer 1

ughh its disturbibing listening to a 13 year old girl using the word *****

Answer 2

aww well dont act too shy, but let him do everything first, but go along with it, dont back away. i think itll maek you more comfortable

Answer 3

Be yourself. Just talk like you would to a friend. Tell him he is awesome and leave it at that. Relax. If he wants to go on a date with you, he likes you for you most likely (one would hope) so just continue to act like you did before.

As far as kissing him, give him a kiss on the cheek at some point when the time seems right.  

Answer 4

if it goes really well and u really like him go for it but if its kinda awkward wait til the next date

Answer 5

At 13 that is more than enough. Hold off on kisses. Your life is still ahead of you.

Answer 6

Holding hands is a good start - and there are lots of ways to do it. You can hold one of his in both of yours, wrap your arm around his. Even hugging has lots of different degrees. Around the shoulder is friendly, around the waist is more romantic, and there are endless variations.

They all matter. You're asking how to express yourself physically. Well, how many words do you know? There are at least as many physical gestures, with at least as many different meanings. Even just a little kiss on the cheek or on his hand will get his attention. Don't worry about jumping way ahead on your first date - learn all the little things about being with him and about touching him, first. That makes it easier to learn the big things later.

And yes, boys his age get erections for any reason or no reasons. It means you've got his attention. His erection isn't your problem, though. It probably embarasses him more than anything else, and a lady will not draw attention to the embarassing fact.

Answer 7

Just kiss him, guys love the whole girl-taking-control thing, and idk have you ever been around one before? Don't be too surprised because I'm sure he will pop one but just don't do anything that will ruin your lives! Or just play the sweet girl and ask him to close is eyes and that you have a surprise for him and then kiss him. idk you can IM me and we can talk about it and stuff

Answer 8

only hold hands and give him kisses if he shows you manors and respect. only give him what you feel comfortable with.

Answer 9

Here goes.  Its up to you to decide whether you kiss him or not, depending on his behavior.  If he was a jerk, why reward him?

If you do kiss, just a peck at first, then decide how it goes and so on.

Answer 10

ok just relax if he wants to take hands with u then he will kind of give u hints or just grab it and if he kiss u dont freeze play with ur hands touch his face play with his hair and let him do the rest if he goes to fast tell him and u set the pace of the kiss. If he gets a ***** make a s**y look at it if u want to do it if not just dont look and dont tell him in an embarras way.

good luck and hope u have fun on your first date

Answer 11

awwww, tht sounds soooo cutee. Well ur only 13 so i suggest keeping it PG.  Dont try to kiss him at all, guys are supposed to do that.  Kissing is super easy, so dont worry at all abt that.  

boners? ur only 13, stay away from that area, thts my advice.

good luck, just be calm, have a good time.  

Answer 12

lol!!!! woah. grab it!!! he will deffinately kiss after u grab it lol