First Time s*x Tips?

Question

'm 18 and a virgin. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and I love him dearly. I'm pretty sure we will be having s*x soon. I don't think this is my boyfriends first time though and I don't want to be "bad in bed". So if there anything you can tell me about the first time? Any tips you can give me? What will it be like? Thanks!

Answer 1

it will hurt like h**l(jk but it will hurt a little):) go slow and use plenty of lube.

Answer 2

honestly it sounds like you dont have a good communication flow going on with him. you THINK he's had s*x. hone you should KNOW. and if he really loves you he's not gunna care if your bad in bed.

i'd say work on communication before s*x

that way your able to speak up for yourself  

Answer 3

be sure to talk to him about this and it will most likely hurt some and bleed a little but if it hurts to bad the first time just stop. you prob wont get much if any pleasure from your first time just stay calm and communicate with your bf

Answer 4

i'm really not a big fan of lube. You deserve to be properly lubricated with your own juices before you start. Unless you're on medication this shouldn't be a problem.

Make sure you touch him all over just as you would like to be touched. Don't just lay there and expect him to do all the work. Get up there and ride that thang!!!

Don't be scared you're not doing it right, this will only cause you to feel insecure, resulting in bad performance.

Own your sexuality....play with his testicles while he's inside you...move your hips while he's on top.

DO NOT LIMIT yourself to any position, try them all if you can

Ask him....Do you like the way this feels....

Good Luck!

And tear his azz up!

Answer 5

First find out if he has had s*x or not.  That is kind of a huge thing in someones life.  Im glad that you waited until you were in love. It makes things so much more special.  When you actually get around to having s*x start slow.  Maybe take turns giving each other oral.  When you get around to actual penetration it is going to hurt like h**l.  It only hurts for a little while then starts to feel kind of good, but in a painful way.  That will make sense when it happens. Just use plenty of lube and relax have fun!

Answer 6

^ wtf to that answer. nobody waits until they get married anymore.

anyway, don't think about it too much. it is kind of self-explanitory once you are doing it. plus, your boyfriend will not think you're bad because it's your very first time. it's not like he will expect you to be the best. after a few times you will get the hang of it

Answer 7

Please wait till marriage.  Think about, You said you love him, you have s*x, but what if in six months you break up.  Then you fall in love again and marry the man, wouldn't like him to be your first time.  Losing your virginity on your wedding night would be sooo special. I'm not trying to parent you, I'm just saying maybe you should think about it.

P.S. if you do have s*x with him, Get details from him first...you "think" he's had s*x before? Make sure you know stuff like that.  Good luck, I hopeI helped you!

Answer 8

you should be very careful and go slow and if it starts to really badly hurt then tell him to stop because u can can have problems afte that and dont be nervous that is the key to being good in bed and then you'll be more expierienced