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First doc visit for pregnancy?

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So. I'm about two months pregnant and I haven't seen a doctor yet because I'm scared.

What happens wen you go in?

What tests do they run?

What do I have to do?

Do I have to bring anything with me?

I'm planning on going to a free clinic, because I don't have health insurance.

Is there anything you can tell me that might make me feel better?

I want to go, but I'm really scared, and my boyfriend is getting mad at me for not going.

please help.

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  1. first visit is nothing really,the just have to comferm your pregnancy!

    i went to a family plannig clinic and got a test which said poitive but they just sent me to my docters (several days later) to do a test which then took another week to come back positive!!!very pointless i wish i would have gone to my docters in the first place!! so after all that farting around my docter refered me to my midwife and that was all he did and i havnt seen him since!!

    nothing to be scared of your docter doesnt really do anything he just makes you do a test then sends to off to your midwife (this will also take a few weeks) so its worth doing now.

    good luck! xx


  2. My first doctor's apoitment they only asked me questions, medical history, family history of both sides, it lasted about 15 minutes...

    My second apt. was when I had my pap smear, they took my blood pressure, weighed me, talked to me about things, and scheduled my first ultrasound..and I got to listen to the babys heartbeat

    They will do a blood test around 18-22 weeks to check for diabetes.

    After those "big"  apt's, they will change and you will do the same exact thing every 4 weeks until you are about 36 weeks and then you will go every week.

    pee in a cup

    they check you weight & blood pressure

    listen to the heartbeat

    measure your tummy

    and ask you if you have a questions....

    You do not have to bring anything with you unless you want to bring your medical records or something, I never brought anything with me....It might be easier for your boyfriend to come with you for the first couple apt's because they will be asking him questions about his medical history too, i hope this helped!!!!!!!!!


  3. This really depends on where you are - they do things differently in different counties, or in the states.

    My doc just checked blood pressure, talked over any fears, gave advice and refered me to the midwife. Met with her about 12 weeks to do blood tests and medical history etc. Nothing at all to worry about.

  4. you should go to a pro doctor because you want the best care for you and most of all the baby. all that you will need to bring with you would be your purse a mag ur bf and the baby.(Joke) they will just run a test to make sure that there is no damage to you or the baby. you shouldn't be scared to go to the docs because they are there to help you and make sure you have the best care. So you should defiantly go and that way you will feel like you did the right thing and not have any regrets

  5. There isn't anything to be afraid of. Here is what happens.....they weigh you, take your blood pressure, and you pee in a cup. The doctor comes in and checks you from head to toe including a quick breast exam and a pap smear (quick and painless yet a little embarassing if it's your first one but they talk you through it, just stay calm...just think they do this for a living, they see hundreds of vaginas a week, and it will be over before you know it.). Then they ask you a million questions like are there any genetic defects such as Downs Syndrome etc., do you have any STD's (they swab and test your v****a regardless of your answer during your pap), have you had any previous pregnancies etc... Then they take some blood samples. The cool thing is, most offices and clinics give you samples of prenatal vitamins and free pregnancy magazines when your all finished. Then you make another appointment for the following month before you leave. They may also do an ultrasound to get an estimate of your due date. So there are going to be some uncomfortable things going on but you can bring your boyfriend with you in the room or perhaps your mom. You need to go to make sure you and the baby are healthy. At your next appointments, you don't even get undressed. They weigh you, you pee in the cup, they take your blood pressure, you get to listen to the babies heartbeat, and that is it. It's towards the end that they start looking around "down there" but by that time you want to baby out and in your arms so honestly you truly don't care if the doctor needs to take a peek. Good luck and it's not that bad. Every woman goes through it.  

  6. First of all...relax. The first visit shouldn't be frightening at all. Here are a few things that will/should occur:

    1. medical history

    2. blood test (barely painful, nothing to be afraid of)

    3. determine due date (good to know)

    4. I can't really think of anything that you'll need to bring with you. If you want to be 100% sure, just call them ahead of time and see what they may need.

    You shouldn't let your fears get the better of you. Yes, there is a little pain involved in pregnancy (mostly at the end) but just remember that the doctors are there to keep you and your baby healthy. You'll get a bunch of samples at your first visit...diapers, prenatal vitamins, formula coupons. And write down any questions that you have. Your doctor should take the time to ease your fears. The first visit does usually take the longest so be patient. I promise you, there's nothing to be afraid of. I've had three boys and being pregnant can be one of the most rewarding things you'll ever go through. The first time you look at your precious baby you'll realize what true love really is. Good luck!

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