First kiss help!!!!!

Question

Hey well i really want to kiss my boyfriend and this ill be booth of ours first kiss. please tell me what you did and how should i do it. i am really shy and he is kinda too!! thanks so much in advance!!!!!

Answer 1

You'll know when it happens. (:

Answer 2

A kiss is one of the most intimate and sensuous

things you can experience with another person. Unfortunately, while there’s no “right” way to kiss, many people experience anxiety about kissing or don’t know how to ask for a kiss. Fear not! Whether you’re getting ready for your first kiss, or you’re an experienced kisser and just want to improve your game for your first kiss with a new partner, you’ve come to the right place.

Be kissable. Use lip balm or vaseline, especially if your lips tend to get dry and chapped. Soft lips are simply more inviting. Most importantly, nobody wants to kiss someone with bad breath, so carry some breath mints or gum with you, especially if you’re going out on a date. Breath mints are preferable, because you can use them in a pinch and not have to worry about getting rid of them. Be sure to stay hydrated, because a dry mouth is more likely to have bad breath. Drink water; other drinks (especially sweet ones) can leave an aftertaste that'll affect your breath, and some drinks (like milk) will linger in a bad way. Also, don't drink anything colored that might leave a ring around your mouth.

Test the waters. Pay attention to signals that the other person is into you and is ready for a kiss. Do they brush up against you or frequently enter your personal space with playful, innocent touches? Has the subject of kissing come up in conversation? If you haven’t noticed any of these signals, but the person does seem “into you,” try discreetly and innocently breaking the touch barrier (guys will generally be very receptive to this, many girls might not). The key is to be subtle and to watch the other person’s reaction.

Offer a mint, only after you've just had one. This can let the other person know what's on your mind, unless you offer them mints all the time.

Glance at his or her lips. Don't stare, and don't do this when they're talking about something that's important to them.

Kiss her hand. How does she respond? If you're a girl, you can kiss a guy's hand, but it tends to have a submissive connotation, where as when a guy does it to a girl, it seems sweet.

Wait for the right moment. There’s usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. Some good times are at a romantic movie after or during an on screen kiss, walking in the moonlight, or during a particularly intimate conversation. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected. Many girls (and guys) don't want to be asked: they prefer that you be confident enough to take a risk and just go for it. One way to do so is to stop whatever you’re doing and silently look into the person’s eyes for a moment or two. Touch their face, then gently pull him/her toward you for a kiss. If the person pulls away or hesitates at any time, he or she is not ready for a kiss. If this happens, tell them that you want to give them a hug and go for that.

Approach for the kiss. Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his or her face).

Kiss gently. There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There’s a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don’t press your mouth onto your partner’s--just let your lips meet--and don’t try to push your tongue into his or her mouth. When your lips meet, pucker them and give a kiss, then smile and pull away a little, keeping your head close to your partner’s. If your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn’t pull away, go in for another kiss, this one a little firmer and longer. Put your hands on their face or around their shoulders.

Make the kiss the reason for the kiss. Some people seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing or start putting their hands in inappropriate places. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don’t move too fast. Live in the moment. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example, when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like "What is he/she thinking about?", "Do I look good tonight?", or anything else. Don't be too self-conscious, or have ANY thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other person's lips feel against yours.

[edit] TipsBe polite and patient. Don't expect a kiss on the first date. If you act polite, your partner might go out with you again and then you might get a kiss once he or she is more comfortable with you. That said, as you get a little older, people become more comfortable with kissing and it’s polite to gently try to kiss your partner if your date has gone well. If you don’t, he or she might think you’re not interested. Just keep in mind that trying to kiss someone is not the same as expecting to kiss someone. If your partner isn’t into it, politely respect that.

Experiment. Over time, you’ll want to try a variety of different kisses for different moods and times. Change it up to keep things interesting. For more information read up on how to French Kiss and how to Kiss Passionately.

Learn from your mistakes if you can - sometimes the timing is bad or the approach too forceful - and approach your next opportunity confidently

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Make sure your hair is out of your face.

Warnings

Kissing is not supposed to be so aggressive and harsh that it feels like a contest of who can get their tongue the farthest into their partner's mouth.

Don't move to open-mouthed too soon. Let the other person give you signals.  

Answer 3

first practice by just keeping your lips soft not hard and stiff. He might be hard and stiff.

Just wait for a nice and relaxed quiet moment when you are together and comfortable joking and talking. You will know and feel it. You will know the closeness and when you both look into each other's eyes, you will connect.

You might have to initiate b/c he is shy but who knows. Furthermore, you might have to lean in and hang on b/c he wants to run but be strong but not too forceful.

Expect him to be little bit stiff and hard at first but just hang onto him a bit and he will settle down and relax and soften his lips.

Once you've got him relaxed, you are there and a quick poke on his lips w/ your tongue helps finish it off.

Don't expect too much b/c this is your first time and just be happy you got your first kiss ever out of your way.

Answer 4

Don't complicate things by overthinking or overplanning it.

It's not going to be perfect, which is a good thing — it gives you an excuse to practice. And, trust me, this is something you'll want to practice quite a bit! LOL

When you're alone and really feeling the emotions, just do it.

Oh, and keep your tongue in your mouth — this is first kiss, not a porno movie.

Answer 5

just make sure your in a private area,

maybe one of your rooms.

theres no right way to kiss, your lips

will just meet.

for the first kiss just go in for a small peck,

no tongue!

then maybe after yalls 3rd and 4th peck you might

start to get more into the kiss and use your lips more.

then youll start to use a little tongue, or make out.

hope i helped! and good luck!!

and right before you go into the kiss stare into his eyes,

and get kinda close up to his face,

this will let him know a kiss is coming.

also, keep your eyes closed during the peck!

its not nice to stare:)!!

good luck.

Answer 6

Don't open your mouth too much and don't stick your tongue down his throat...the rest will come naturally.

read this:

http://www.links2love.com/teens

Answer 7

you dont learn it just sort of happens and you go with the flow

it comes natural i promise x

Answer 8

I sucked at my 1st kiss...  My husband still makes fun of me today.  It is one of those things, just do it you both learn from there.  

Answer 9

enjoy!!!!!

this is one of the best times to practice kissing.

and dont be afraid to just lean in and kiss.give him a surpise.

and you can start with just a peck.then move on

Answer 10

It is a natural thing and you will both figure it out as you go.  I was SO nervous with my first kiss...but once it happened it felt very natural and I got butterflies:)  Just make sure to take your gum out of your mouth first if you are chewing any!  Gum makes it very awkward! LOL Also, try not to kiss too agressively.  Gentle is good!

Answer 11

well wat you want to do is take him to some where were there is no people at and just kiss him