First kiss questions?

Question

argh, i'm nervous and this might sound dumb but..

how long should the first kiss.be?

do i/we simply press both of our lips together? or do we each "go for" one of the other's lips (like i kinda put my lips around his upper lip -- and so my lower lip is between his lips..)?

any other advice would be welcome, too.

thanks so much. =]

Answer 1

It really depends on how into it you guys are.. My first kiss turned into a twenty minute makeout session, but yours could just be a little peck. You never really know.

The rest comes naturally, I promise. Just don't be nervous - relax and you'll be fine.

Answer 2

Just go with what feels right.

Once you start, you won't be thinking about anything but how good it feels.

Answer 3

go with how it feels if its his first kiss to then it should be comfortable most kisses are lips together i dont do the other stuff unless i am making out or something... i hope you are old enough to be doing this :) your going to be nervous and thats ok as long as you feel comforable with what you are doing

Answer 4

Are ya'll trying to do a simple kiss or a full out makeout?

Your instincts will take over and it will be natural. All you can really do is make sure your lips is not chappy and is soft. Also pop in a tic-tac or two.

Answer 5

Just go with the flow. if you think about it .. it will just end up being a mess. a first kiss is normally just a peck and your lips just go. Dont be nervous and dont think about it too much :)

Answer 6

It should be as long as you like.Yes,you simply press your lips together but add a little motion to it for romantic effect..LOL.Yeah,that's how you kiss. =)

Answer 7

Maybe about 10 seconds? Don't make it too long, or too short.

Do whatever feels good!

Answer 8

Go with what your both comfortable with.

Answer 9

I know this doesnt sound like good advice, but its comes naturally. Before i started to kiss, i was like blah! this is no help. But it really does happen naturally. You will know what to do when it happens (:

Answer 10

This is a funny question to me...cause it brings back memories of my first kiss! Honestly...it doesn't matter how your first kiss goes! There are no rules! My first kiss was short! I pulled back right in the middle of it! And 3 yrs later, I married the guy! He still picks on me about it, but I don't really care! As long as it's special to you then it will be perfect!

My best advice to you tho, would just be to relax and let things happen the way they are meant to! If you feel like doing it one way more than another then do it! If you just want to touch lips, that's okay too! Like I said, there are no rules! Just relax and everything will be fine! Good luck and thanks for bringing back the memory!!!

Answer 11

Just go for it, and it'll come naturally - I promise! I was SOO nervous about my first kiss because I was afraid I'd s***w it up. It actually ended up being a kiss kind of like the way you'd kiss your grandmother, lol, but I didn't s***w it up! Now, my first french kiss was about 2 weeks later, and it was a bit sloppy. But, that one takes practice, and that's the fun part!

Answer 12

How to do a kiss:

Put your lips on his/her lips.

End of story.

Betina, I think relating it to kissing your grandmother is going to freak him/her out.

Answer 13

do what feels right

what ever happens, happens