First out relationship?

Question

with a girl (Im also a girl). and Im absolutely terrified, but excited, and happy, but scared. scared it wont work out, scared of being labelled (when I refuse to label myself and believe you fall in love with the person). is this all normal? what do you think? what was it like for you? Thanks to everyone in advance.

Love.

Answer 1

lm also in love wid my friend bt den i don no hw 2 xpress it...gal u r so lucky dat da person u love is wid u n she is all urs den y r u caring abt stupid pipal..juz don giv a d**n 2 them.....n love her as much as u want...love is blind dear.....enjoy n ya dis is normal it is not a disease or siknas...best of luck

Answer 2

yes, it is like that, even if you're straight.

I think that it shouldn't matter what they think, be true to yourself.

Answer 3

Yes, its normal to have those feelings in your first L*****n relationship. I had the same feelings, but once my friends found out they approved, It was no big thing. We held hands in school and dint care what neone thought, we kissed each other before classes, ppl talked, yea theyre gonna because theyre stupid. Just ignore them, I did, I was able to ignore them because  I knew this was me, and if they dint like who i was, then i could care less what they had say. My school was an uptight richy school, where if you were rich the teachers dint like you, to many syereotypes and clickes. So in the end i got expelled ofr being a L*****n, and my dad who dint really approve of me and her, he was there for me during it all, So even if you think your parents wont approve, even if they act like they dont, in the end when it really matters, they will always be there for you. good luck and enjoy it. be yourself, dont care bout what others think. its not wirth it.

Answer 4

it is out that Iam in a relationship just not who iam with since my girlfriend is still in that dark gloomy closet. I would not worry about being labeled as long as it does not bother you it should be ok for other people.

Answer 5

First of all just relax, your both females so just treat it as though your going out with your friend to hang out. Dont put alot of pressure on this for the first g*y relationship. Just go with the flow, what will be will be.Not all relationships work out ,especially the first time ones, so take your time , dont rush and don't expect to much right off.

Just get to know eachother and build a trusting friendship and go from there.

Goodluk

Answer 6

All of your worries are normal, all of this is new to you. Right now you are engrossed in all the wonderful emotions of new love, sorting out what it will mean in your life to be in love with a woman, how it is that society will view you as a result of who you love. The best thing you can do is focus on the exciting, crazy, insanity that comes with new love. Don't hold back out of fear, just ride the emotional wave, these are the days where the two of you will begin to build your emotional foundation, thus ensuring that the two of you can withstand an unsure future. I wish you love, luck, and acceptance.

L