First time having s*x and unprotected.. What are the risks?

Question

So yeah.. Two days ago i had unprotected s*x with my boyfriend. It was the first time for both. I'm not on the pill. He didn't come while he was inside. We did it for about 4-5 minutes. Is it possible that I get pregnant? Is there any chance I get some STD? Is it possible that we get AIDS? What should I do now? Should I take the morning after pill?

Answer 1

It is possible for all of your questions. Pre ejaculation can occur and just one tiny sperm can do the trick of getting you pregnant.  He may not even realize that he did it. You should always just play it safe, i would defiantly take the morning after pill ASAP

Answer 2

All of you need to take s*x ed classes.   Pre-come can make you pregnant, if you both truly were virgins, you can''t contract an STD. You can't take the morning after pill anymore as you need to take it within 12 hours of having s*x.

Answer 3

You could get pregnant, HIV, gonorrhea, clymidia, hepatitis, herpes, genital warts, syphillis.

You have left it two days so the Morning After Pill will be less effective but you should go and get it and whilst you are there discuss contraception and protection for the future.

If you're not sure where to get it do a google search.  Try the keywords, family planning, contraceptive advice, or sexual health and the name of your town.  I can't provide a link as I'm in the UK and I'm only getting British sites when I search.

EDIT- they call it the morning after pill but it's effective for up to 72 hours.  It's not 100% effective, but no contraception is.

Answer 4

hey if he dint come inside, u cant get pregnant. so dont worry abt it. As far as STDs and AIDS are concerned, ask your bf if he has em. Coz the only way u'd get it is from him and not from anywer else. so chill. good luck!!

Answer 5

Oh ViVi, be careful! There are many babies born to mom's who only had s*x once. I think the morning after pill is only really effective the first 48 hours less the 3rd day. I'm not 100% sure of this its just what I've read on here. Please, please use a condom if you are going to have s*x again. Make an appt. at a clinic to get on some form of birth control if you guys are going to be having s*x. The condom is for preventing STDs and HIV more than a safe B/C method though they do help a lot of the time.

I was married with two kids at 18 and miserable. Not because of my babies but my marriage.

I got married and had kids because I thought it was what I wanted to do. That and I had no mother and my dad was driving me crazy. It wasn't a good plan on my part. Be smart, stay in school. Its harder to finish school with kids.

Answer 6

Yes, you can pregnant the first time you have s*x, and yes you can also get STDS/AIDS. You can't get STDs if your boyfriend doesn't have them though. Pre-*** can contain sperm, which can definitely get you pregnant.If you don't want to get pregnant, get a morning after pill ASAP, because the longer you leave it, the less likely it is to be effective. You can buy them from any chemist and not sure about price, because I don't know where you are, or the local currency. They're about $25 Australian dollars here though.

The fact that you don't know these answers suggests your too young to be having s*x anyway. Do a bit of research and learn about s*x/STD's etc before you make a mistake and ruin your life. Prevention/protection is better than trying to find a solution later on.

Answer 7

if u are girl...

Yeah...maybe you'll be pregnant...

You have to get the risk...

And if you are a boy...

be ready for get angry from the girl's parents..

and you'll get married !!!

Answer 8

yes yes take it now

Answer 9

I would take the pill to be on the safe side, you can't catch anything if he doesn't have an std. But I would use a condom in the future to prevent worry and stress! and no, unless he has aids you cant catch it.

Answer 10

you're stupid for not being a the pill and you wouldnt have to worry..

the STD and aids is a non worry as its both you're first time - you get them when you sleep about love.

Answer 11

ok first the morning after pill does not always work as i know a girl who got pregnant when she took the morning after pill right after it happened. second it was 2 days ago they call the morning after pill "morning after" because that is when it works best. yes u could be pregnant. even though he did not *** inside u there is still pre *** that a guy never knows when it comes out as they can not feel it as if they was actually getting off. Yes you could get STDs but does he have STDs? if he don't have any then more in likely you wont get an STD either. Either way go and see a doctor if u are concerned. Or wait until you miss your period and take a test. Good luck either way.

Answer 12

It's possible you can become pregnant from pre-ejaculate.  Not incredibly likely, but the risk is there (very low)

You will need to make the decision for yourself about the morning-after pill.  

You need to have a very frank talk with your partner about all of this, and I don't wish to sound preachy, yet you both ought to have tested for sexually transmittable diseases anyhow before you got involved, virgin or not (I'm sorry, but people can and do lie about activity).  These are still things you can and should do immediately.

I wish you the best

Answer 13

Any time you have unprotected s*x, even if it's only for a few minutes and the first time, you can get pregnant or contract an STD!  If you were both virgins, the chances of contracting an STD are probably not that high, but you can contract some through ways other than previous sexual contact.  Go on the pill and/or use a condom EVERY TIME!  

Answer 14

Yes you can get preganant and of course there is a possibily you could get an STD if your boyfriend has had unprotected s*x before.

Have you never been told any of this before or did you choose to ignore it?

Answer 15

Wow you pretty much followed the best way possible in order to get pregnant, contract AIDS and receive STDS. The morning after pill costs 50 and you can buy it at Walgreens, Rite-Aid places like that. I'm 18 years old but im sexually active, and use condoms along with being on the pill...where did you get your education?

Answer 16

yes u can get pregnant. because of "pre come"

it is a bigg risk

Answer 17

u could become pregnant by pre-sperm..& as long as u both have been tested for STD's you shouldn't get any  

Answer 18

Is possible to get pregnant but is very unlikely. Good change of getting STD if he has it . You should always us protection if you are worry of contracting STD. If you worry I suggest you go for a heath test with sexual health clinic.

Good Luck.

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Answer 19

The morning after pill can protect you from pregnancy but not from STD's. So unless you know you're partner has not been with anyone else you could have caught an STD but its not possible if you were both virgins.

Even though he didnt ejaculate inside you, there is still a chance you could get pregnant. I would get the morning after pill as a precaution, in the UK you can get them free from your Doctors or pay about £25 from pharmacys like boots.

Answer 20

if its the first time for u both there is no possibility of getting aids unless any of u have been in contact with someone who has aids, none of u should be carrying an sti and it doesnt matter if he didnt come inside u he still has pre come and u can very easily fall preg with that! I think to be on the safe side u should take the morning after pill but this is to be used in emergencies only, I suggest u go and get yourself sorted out with a long term contraceptive like the pill or the depo provera jag so that this dont happen again

Answer 21

If it was the first for you both then unless ether one of you were born with a STD then you should be fine in that area as for getting pregnant there is a possibility that you could get pregnant you need to think this through next time as for the morning after pill idk if you could get it I gess it wouldn't hurt you.

Answer 22

Of course. If he had an STD u could have it now, if he has HIV then u could have it now and u could be pregnant. Pre come.

Answer 23

remember protection is precaution, nothing more