First time having s*x...

Question

okay when i had s*x for my first tme she gave me head but it wasnt that good like i was expecting it to make me ejac. and then when we were doin the real thing it took me like at least 10 mins to ***. and it felt real good but it wasnt SO great ....is it supposed to get better after the 1st time and why did it take me so long to *** cuz usually i do really fast.

Answer 1

Dont want to make it go quicker

Longer lasting s*x is much better than quick s*x

Answer 2

10 mins seems right , i blew my load in about 10-15 mins my first time also , like the one guy said be proud , most guys blow in the 1st couple mins.. GOOD JOB!!

Answer 3

Dude, allow me to clue you in on two secrets to beautiful love-making.

First, communication is absolutely necessary.

Furthermore, LOVE will make it great.

Answer 4

The problem with first time s*x is that you don;t know what to expect and expectations usually exceed reality.

What you need to do now is explore your feelings and aloow the other to guide you through what they would like to have done.

PS, p**n films are TERRIBLE reference points

Answer 5

It's okay and you're fine.  It doesn't always happen that fast and it was your first time.  And 10 minutes isn't that bad.  

Maybe next time it'll come faster but don't worry, you're good.  For some people it takes longer than that.

Answer 6

everything you described sounds about right for a first time, completely normal

Answer 7

sounds good for first time

it gets better with practice

Answer 8

At least you weren't premature be proud of it man.

By the way it takes longer because you aint going as fast  

Answer 9

maybe your p***s doesnt like women

Answer 10

It wasn't great because neither one of you really knew what you were doing.  Perfectly normal.  

I guarantee it will get better.  So much better you will be amazed!  

My guess is that it took awhile for you to squirt because you weren't completely focused on what you were doing.  

Don't worry about anything, you're normal

Answer 11

It might get better, the important thing is that you did ejaculate and you enjoyed it as a first time. It took me two partners before I ejaculated for the first time with s*x, I was with my 2nd partner for 17 months and the only way she made me ejaculate was through intercourse or masturbation, I haven't ejaculated through oral yet. It seems as if it gets better with experience, finding a partner you're comfortable with and experimenting will usually bring on new pleasures and sensations. If you want to ejaculate faster then cut down on the masturbation and hold yourself until you have intercourse. Sorry if it was too much information, I'm just going from my experience. In theory, as long as you and your partner are clean, safe and both enjoying then you can't really get any better.