First time really nervous whats wrong with me?

Question

okay i want to have s*x for my first time but the thing is idk whats wrong with me cause whenever i try putting a tampon in it wont go in its like somethings blocking it maybe its cause i get really freaked out with tampons and tense up but i dont know will it work will s*x work and also does it hurt really bad your first time?

Answer 1

i didnt use a tampon until i lost my viginity my 1st time i was on top n i just sat there lol true story we were both vergins we didnt no wot we were doing lol n no it didnt hurt but felt really weird n uncomfortable

Answer 2

Not what you expect! Not,doesn't hurt, but it doesn't feel good either.

Honestly, s*x is over rated. Having s*x doesn't hit any of the spots that your body is sensitive to. And if you are considering s*x, make sure your first time is with someone who you really love.

You may think you are ready, but do you KNOW that you are? It is often hard to tell the difference. Your body is sending you some confusing signals and your heart and mind just don't seem to agree about what you should do. You should know and trust your partner and yourself because once you have s*x you can't take it back.

To do it or not to do it... that is the question that plagues many teens. A mixture of hormones and social pressures make the drive to become sexually active very strong.

Many teens make the mistake of giving into their urges without thinking things through. s*x is more than just a pleasurable act; it is a physical risk and an emotional gamble.

Be smart, be sure and be ready if you want to have s*x with no regrets.

Answer 3

The first time you have s*x, many woman experience some pain and in varying degrees. You should be relaxed, not tense or feeling stressed. If you are feeling nervous, wait until you feel more ready.

Answer 4

If you relax things will  work better down there.  

Answer 5

I can't put tampons in either for some reason.

The first time will hurt but relax I guess.

Answer 6

um, lol.

that happens to me alot.

i actually got one in about a week ago and i like freaked out because i had tried before.

i dont know, i had to use a mirror to see!

LOL hmm, i bet nobody does that...