First time without a condom?

Question

I'm dating this guy and he's my first serious boyfriend. I'm not a virgin but the relationships I've had before were really just bad ideas. This guy has been with me and waiting on s*x for a year. He's never pressured me.

I know he's healthy because we go give blood together all the time and share the results that show our blood type. I know his full sexual history.

I'm on BC and take my pills religiously. I was thinking when we finally did have s*x, there would be no condom. But I've never felt that before. Is it better? Weird at first? Anything I should know?

Thanks.

Answer 1

The thing you have to get used to is the feeling of all the s***n leaking out again afterwards - makes a h**l of a mess!

Answer 2

It's a decision that you and your boyfriend have to make. I know in my relationship, we agreed the pill and condoms every time. If I miss a pill or he doesn't have condoms, then no s*x. It's that plain and simple.  

Answer 3

thats really your choice, i will tell you however that giving blood doesn't mean that one of you don't have an std, and your blood type has nothing to do with s*x. Some diseases don't show up in blood tests for years so even though your blood that you donate is screened, it may not mean squat. To be totally safe i reccomend you two go see a physician together and have a physical. Tell the dr you want to have unprotected s*x but you have been with other partners and never been checked for stds, if that is the case. The dr will ask you a series of questions, possibly reccomend a specialist if neccesary (like an ob) and then decided which tests would be the most appropriate to screen your for. In example it may not be neccesary for either of you to be screened for herpes as a culture may be neccesary for this and in order to do that you need to have something to culture like a sore, easy for a women because her cervix can be swabbed, not so easy for a man,  The most common would be a rapid hiv to check for antibodies in your blood and the most common are chlymidia and gonareha (sorry bad spellin g) and these are both done with urine or a swab. As far as condoms go, i prefer s*x without a condom, however i have been through this process and also been married for six years to my husband. i am on birth control and we have never had an unplanned pregnancy, only planned, so i am deffinetly an advocate for birth control. good luck!

Answer 4

Yes it feels better with out one. Ive only used condoms a few times. Its so much better with out one.