Flatteriing or NOT??!!?

Question

Ok so I have this best friend that recently has been making really good friends with another friend of mine and well they've become best friends as well. But my best friend keeps on copying the sh*t outta me!!!! All she does is copy me! Like if I do a certain layout of myspace she does the same, it's childish and immature, even me caring is immature lol!

Anyway and even on instant-messenger, she does the EXACT same personal message (the phrase below your name).

Should I be flattered or just annoyed? I get really good grades (not to brag honest, but i get straight As) and I even caught her copying from me during tests!

My question is, why do you think she is doing this. I also have plenty of friends coz I'm nice to everyone, so they respect me. Do you think she envies me or something :( ! Heck I don't want my bf to hate me!!

Also whe she asked me what I got in my exams and I told her, she sorta em. . . snarled and stuff (btw I always admit I study so I don't know why she would do that!)

Pls help me! Can you see why she does this and what's her motive?

I mentioned the other friend of hers so that you won't think that she doesn't have friends or anything. She's a really nice person so that really gets me even more baffled.

Answer 1

i would totally be annoyed, she is totally envyign you, but she is one of yoru best friends, so just politely tell her to stop . possibly, she hasnt found her own person yet, and you seem like a really nice girl, like one of my friends, shes modest, but shes a really cool girl, probably like yourself . and since everyone knows yoru nice, no drama will ahppen if you talk this out with your friend, and .. in some way i would be flattered .. but mostly annoyed.. reaallllyy annoyed :)

Answer 2

take it as a compliment that she trusts you that you will get answers right in tests, but if it's ALL THE TIME, then you might have to say to her 'you know, you're never gonna survive at work or in adult life if you always copy ppl and never learn for urself. i think you need to talk to her about the MSN stuff, maybe she's just trying to joke around with you and if she says she can't some up with any names or messages, just tell her 'well, type in "msn nicknames" on Google, it comes up with some good responses.

hope i helped :)

EDIT: to 'tmscaw05...' she was just asking if you thought it was flattering or not, and there was no reason to call her catty and stuff, i think u r just jealous becuase maybe people didn't look up to you like that when u were her age...please don't say stuff like that, it doesn't help the person, trust me, i have had rude and immature ppl say to me "GET OVA URSELF" and c**p like that, it's not needed and does hurt the feelings of the person that asked the question. did u ever think that maybe she may feel really upset that somebody that hasn't even met her thinks she's a cow?

to the huny that asked to question; don't listen to 'tmscaw05...', ignore her, she is just a rude person that doesn't know how to answer questions properly on this thing

Answer 3

Really? This makes you angry?

You sound like a real idiot She's just thinking you are someone to look up to. However, you are being really catty and crappy.

Many people your age are looking for people to look up to, and often that comes in the form of people your own age. Unfortunately for her, she's looking up to you, and you are so full of yourself, that you can't appreciate that.

I wish for her, that she wasn't looking to you. Mature teenagers want to help other people. When you are "copied" you should feel "flattered". If not, go to the back of the class, because there are plenty of good people who will take your place.

You are asking, but you are asking because you are vain, not because you care. Check yourself girl. You may be pretty/popular/smart/whatever, but I promise you a few years fron now people will wonder why they liked you if you keep up that attitude.

Answer 4

I'd be really annoyed. Just call her out on it and see how she reacts. If she flips out, drop her. Who wants to live that way??

Answer 5

She wants to be like you, and she obviously is not too bright. She needs help finding her own self. Show how much you really have going for you and don't be so concerned about her copying your ideas and layouts. Are you worried that everybody won't know who is copyng who?