Flirting Is Fun But Is It Safe To Flirt With Just Any Guy Just Because He Finds You Attractive? ?

Question

If Not What Could Go Wrong?

Answer 1

you shouldn't be flirting with just everyone, most ppl can automatically guess a girls age by that behavior alone. Even adult women only flirt with someone their interested in and even that can be risky. About 20yrs ago, courses and books came out on how to flirt and started pushing the idea it made a woman "s**y", that guys like women who flirted, the truth is that someone was out to make $$ and a lot of copy cats followed suit.  

    It does little of what they promised, what is does do is give girls/women the rep of being "loose", to put it nicely, it makes them look like an idiot when a guy calls their bluff.

It ruined a lot of relationships and families. Don't see  women doing it anymore, do you?

     And i'll tell you another reason why ? The laws can say anything they want, but little works by the word.

      If you were a well known flirt and ended up raped, just try to go to court, all it takes is a couple of witness's to express your behavior and no matter what the law says, that jury of peers see's a "tease, a loose woman", someone who thinks it's funny to get a guys all worked up, then say no. Believe me many a guy has walked for this reason, society has no sympathy, respect or time for a tease.        

      What they see is someone who deserved what she got, someone who would scream rape when it did not happen. Even worse if there's alcohol involved.

      No, means no, unless your a tease.

      Another thing, you never know who just happen to be watching from a window, a car, a passerby. If you don't know who's watching, then you don't know when your being stalked, nor do you know when you've turned on some warped or crazy stranger. But it was your behavior that caught his eye and drew him too you, add being alone at the wrong time and place when he's following you and "bingo" we have a missing person.

     Fact is, that will probably never happen to you, but that is also what some other girls once believed. Serial killers and rapist, etc., are not ugly freaks with signs pinned to their chests. Some of them were really nice, good looking, sweet guys...thats how they lured/got their victims with "kindness and trust" !!!

      Never ever pays, to pretend your someone or something your not.  

Answer 2

As you say flriting is fun. But we guys don't see flirting the same way you girls do. A girl flirts cause is fun, a guy flirts cause he likes the girl. When a girl flirts the guy thinks she likes him. So if you wonder what coudl go wrong flirting with a lot of different guys could get you a bad rep.