Follow up- adoption?

Question

looking for someone to adopt my baby but not trying to deal with angencies? how would i do it?

Answer 1

If you don't have someone in mind who you know would take good care of the baby the best thing to do is give baby to agency. I just adopted and they did a very detailed check into all my life. This is a good way to insure that the person getting your baby can actually take care of the baby.

ML

Answer 2

Oh my, we are looking for a baby, 4 years or younger. The person that would adopt the baby would have to do all the paper work. You would just have to sign. We have to find someone like you that will be willing to do it without agencies because we have been previously married. Through them, they want us married for 4 years. I have two daughters and would have another of my own but I can not carry any more. I have had several mis carriages and lot of problem with my two. Is your baby a boy or a girl and can you tell me what you are planning on doing?

Answer 3

I believe if you already have someone in mind all you to do is go throug the courts you should use an agencie it is a lot safer than just picking someone you really no nothing about are you sure you wont to do this ? is the child already born

Answer 4

place an ad in the paper

Answer 5

you can use a lawyer rather than an agency. Many adoption lawyers have outreach programs to help place children. They would likely still want you to talk to a social worker to ensure that you are fully aware of the implications of placing your child for adoption. You can just google "adoption lawyers". Also if you want to look for families directly you can  google "waiting families".

Answer 6

There are many loving families that place ads in papers, but make sure you meet them first.  Being pregnant is scary and it can be a lonely feeling.  Make yourself a list of what you want the family to be able to provide for your baby (for example: siblings, clean home, stable parents, security, stay at home mom or dad, both parents work, etc.....).  I have been doing some research on adoption (mostly international, but the US isn't out of question).  If you are at the beginning of your pregnancy, keep a journal of the babies activities and your dr appts... this will help the adoptive parents with feeling connected to the pregnancy.  

You don't have to deal with an agency, but just know that by dealing with an agency, you are having the most potential families to choose from.  If you let your doctor know that you are placing the baby up for adoption, but haven't chosen a family yet he/she may help you with the process.  You are making a wise choice for the baby, and don't question yourself.  

Good Luck

Answer 7

Why do you want to give away your baby?  You don't love him/her and want to raise him/her?  Are you certain about this even though you haven't even given birth yet?  

Adoption is for unwanted children.  Is your child really unloved and unwanted?

Answer 8

Go through a lawyer or there is the option of placing an advertisement in the paper. If you have a friend or family member who you would like to adopt your baby then that would be a lot easier and you would only have to go to a lawyer for that. It is hard to say as I don't know your circumstances, adoptions can be a lot easier if you have not yet given birth and it also depends on your reasons for wanting to adopt etc? :-)