For 20-22 year old women with 2 kids!!!!

Question

when did you get pregnant with your 2nd child?

how did you react when you found out you was pregnant again?

how did your partner react to you being pregnant for the second time?

how did your first child react to the pregnancy and newborn?

how did you handle being pregnant with an older child?

how did u feel being pregnant at that age?

and overall how was your pregnancy?

Answer 1

* I am 21 years old and 5 weeks pregnant

* I was thrilled ( baby was planned)

* He is so happy he is already picking out baby furniture and baby names

* My 2 year old is taking it very well. He is always lifting up my shirt and asking if the baby is still in there and when is it gonna come out

* Its is kinda hard with being so tired and the morning sickness but I have a wonderfull husband and family who helps alot

* I love it I always wanted to have a family at a young age.

* So far wonderful thanks to my husband , and family

* A wonderful support system is key !!

Answer 2

1: I got pregnant shortly after my 1st was born (yikes!!!) They are 13 Months apart.

2: I flipped my lid, I was very upset and unhappy about it, I didnt want another child and I cried A LOT!

3: My partner was excited but also upset for me because it wasn't really what I wanted (we didnt think his swimmers were any good, the doctor lied) so he was happy he could have kids.. but wow I was so pissed.

4: My son was so young he really didn't notice anything, he was just not interested when my daughter was born, they now play together it took until she could crawl for him to be interested.

5: It was so hard, I was so tired all the time and I was upset I couldnt do things with my son that he wanted to do because I was in pain or just plain pooped out, I was just so blah the whole time. My husband luckily would come home early for doc. appointments or to let me take a nap.

6: I am still sometimes sad about it when I think wow, what could I be doing now if I didnt have children. I felt like a bad mother because sometimes I just didn't want them, I wanted to enjoy my younger years and have fun like all my friends my age who don't have children. Again luckily my husband understands this (he is a bit older) and lets me spread my wings sometimes, I had just had my second daughter a month before my 21st birthday ... so... I feel like I am missing out on my "wild years" but I love them, I can't say I wouldnt change things though and waited a few years more... I would have still wanted them if I decided to wait though I do love them.. but its hard sometimes.

6: My pregnancy with my second was hard, more painfull I was much more angry because my hormones hadn't calmed down... and I just didnt like it, I am sad I didnt take any pictures though. To this day I have no pictures from either pregnancy... I couldnt do anything because my body was still wacked out.

My first.. I had a very sick pregnancy .. morning sickness day and night for 6 months I was in the hospital a lot. By the 7th month I was happy and did everything I could before that baby popped out :0)

Oh the start might be a bit confusing I was married got pregnant, ex husband told me I dont want the baby get an abortion or Im going to leave, so I left... then the story goes on lol

Answer 3

1. I got pregnant with baby#2 when I was 21 (I'm 36.7wks now, and 22yo)

2. I was excited and nervous. Intuition told me after we finished having s*x, that I was pregnant...such an odd feeling

3. I started a new relationship shortly before becoming pregnant, and he was so happy and excited, he almost cried. :)

4. lol well he thinks my belly button is very weird, and likes to lift up my shirt to touch the belly. don't know how he'll take to the newborn yet though.

5. it can be tough, especially near the end..but I was lucky and didn't have any morning sickness or major symptoms with this pregnancy, so I've been able to take care of him very well.

6. I think its a good thing, I'll be able to lose the weight easily, and returning to work won't be a major issue. I always wanted to start my family at a younger age than my parents did.

7. Awesome! have the most caring husband to raise a family with. :)

I wouldn't have done it any other way :))))))

Answer 4

I was exactly 9 months pregnant on my 21st b-day

I was completely surprised but excited

He was happy but it took a minute to show it

My daughter was sooo happy when I brought her brother home. She wanted to do everything with me.

It wasnt easy but I just reminded my oldest that "mommy has a baby in her belly so be careful"ie no jumping on mommy

I was scared but not as scared as I was with my first I felt like hey if I can do it once I can do it again. I kept telling myself its better to have kids when your young so you can be an active mama

My second was waaay easier than my first mostly because i felt like I knew what to expect during pregnancy and having a newborn.

Answer 5

i just found out im 5 weeks along with number 2

number 1 is 18 months

i am scared, unsure, disapointed, happy, excited,worried

he is freaked out. he is not ready for another one cos im only 20 and hes 22

its scary to know you have such a responsibility at such a young age. BUT my friend just had twins and she has a small kid and shes 20, also girl i know has just had her 2nd and shes 21, they have houses, morgages, cars, etc on their own, so am i apt, car etc. so not as bad its not like i live with parents, but still disapointed in myself and scared what my family is going to say. just lost my job and car broke down.