For Expert Astrologers: What is going on with my Aries ex?

Question

Me: 8/14/72, 9:05 AM, San Francisco, CA

Him: 3/21/79, ?, Crawfordsville, IN

We broke up 3 months ago. It was devastating to me b/c he said he wanted "freedom". He didn't contact me for 2 of those months. I tried to move on and not contacted him at all. The last three weeks, he has been contacting me by text, email or phone. Then this weekend, he said (drunkenly) that he still thinks about us and maybe we should try to get back together in "baby steps". I don't know what I should do? My heart says "Yes!" but my head says "watch out!". According to the stars, what is happening?

Answer 1

i think you should get back together. BUT i think you should do so on YOUR terms. tell him he wants you back he has to work for it. tell him you love him passionately and don't want to be hurt again, tell him he just can't go running off like that and can't be flirty with other girls and cant' do this and that and if he wants to be with you it is all or nothing. no baby steps. no all or nothing. tell him you want a commitment or else you two can just be friends until he is ready for you. otherwise he is going to just use you for s*x or for a pretty girl to hang on his shoulder.

you sit down and think about what YOU want to be different this time around. think about what kind of relationship YOU want from him. write it all out, give it some serious thought. then tell him how it is going to be. tell him he hurt you and you don't want to be used by him again. be very dramatic and I promise you will get what you want in the end.

oh, and here is a translation for you: 'freedom' means he met another girl or maybe a couple. wanted to have fun with them for a while, because he is too young or too wild to settle down, so he played around with them for a while, and then decided it wasn't true love. he might love you to death but you need to put things on at YOUR terms. don't let him play you for a fool. Tell him you will either put your foot down or put it up his *ss. whichever he prefers.

but don't let him have his way. if he had it his way he would be married to you and have 100 girlfriends on the side that you don't even know about. that is what baby steps means. it means he wants things to be 'no strings attached' for a while so he can have his cake and a piece of the pie.

Answer 2

I'm not an expert in astrology but I was noticing he was born on the pisces/aries cusp so look for pisces type of personality traits as well in trying to figure him out.  My bf was also like that at the beginning of our relationship and he's also an Aries born 3/24.  The "freedom" part is definitely part of their nature.  They can be free and yet still be in a relationship.  I give my bf his freedom by giving him plenty of space for a few days and sometimes even up to a week.  It's fine with me because it gives me a chance to have my space as well too.  Then they will call you and tell you that they've just been so busy "with life" and they miss you and then their all over you again so in honest truth I do like the breaks as well especially with me being a Virgo lol.  Anyhow, if they really want you they will definitely always call you.  My bf and I actually broke up a couple of times and by the beginning of the 3rd month, just like in your case, he always called.  You were smart to not call him because in actuality they like to do the chasing.  He's probably loving this to a certain point because your making him chase you but in the meantime it can cause you a lot of distress.  Yes he wants the "baby steps" for a reason.  He's basically saying, "don't give me all of you at once" "keep me chasing you" lol.  Be confident though, Aries both male and females love confident people but don't be arrogant because in reality Aries males kind of like to play that part.