For GUYS: Would you just forget about me and leave me right away???

Question

Let's say we have been hanging out for almost 4 months now and there hasn't been problems between us because it seems that we hit it off too well. You loved laughing with me and making fun of me, we go to places together, watch movies, cook food together, dine out once a week and spend most of our weekends together and of course I really enjoyed your company too. Then suddenly, an unavoidable circumstance is about to happen to you and you saw how affected I was and instead of talking to me, you refused and pushed me away. You know that I love you but this scares you plus, you got this huge issue you have to face that you told me way back. I also told you that whatever happens, I will still be around for you.

Would just forget about me right away and turn your back as easy and walk away? Why do guys do this to the girl they like?

Answer 1

Because. We're scared... heh, I'd be lying if I said otherwise. Most guys are scared of commitment. We are also scared of how the circumstance might have affected you, do you still like us? would you still like us afterwards? etc. These are the questions we ask ourselves...

No...we don't forget. You're on the back of our mind the entire time, trust me. Why do we do it? answered above.

Answer 2

Men are so stupid.

Answer 3

u got me!actualy its how alota people avoide emotional pain i got more to say but gota go

Answer 4

If it came down to an issue that would keep arising or it would have a dramatic affect on you and our relationship, then its possible to just step away. Sounds like hurting your feeling would be the light side of it.  

Answer 5

Yes, i probably would too...because i would want to get you out of the way of any trouble i might be going throug...or it could also be that you are so lovely that you would be a distraction to me or that i wouldn't want to have to worrie about you instead of focusing on the main objective....but , i would definately come back to you for you....for sure...there is no way i would leave you like this..or forget about you either....i couldn't turn my back and walk away, bacause i would feel like we are in this together, if you know what i mean....so don't worry he has to come back sometimes...maybe he just can't come back right now because he's trouble isn't over yet....so it just feels like he left....just don't listen to you're doubts....ok good luck !