I'm putting this here because I like the people in this section and value their feedback. I'll start off by saying I'm a guy. I live in the southern US.
A new school year has just started as of now and I am a junior. I've been struggling a lot with my sexuality and realizing that I'm g*y over the summer and was pretty much depressed all summer because of it. I can't explain why that made me depressed - but it did. I was in denial for a few months before the summer also. I had over-the-summer schoolwork and I didn't do most of it. I'm not trying to make excuses...I didn't do the work and that's that. However this year I am taking a couple college courses, which are supposed to be extremely difficult and I've already made a bad impression on these teachers by not doing that work. It also doesn't help that the teachers of the college courses are for the most part a******s.
The problem is I've lost all motivation to do much of anything; especially my schoolwork. Even doing things that I used to enjoy don't give any real pleasure. The only thing that gives any sense of pleasure and that I still want to do is helping others (this includes but isn't limited to being on Y!A). I realize that I can't always do that and have to focus on me, though.
I'm not popular at school - everyone always assumes I'm a nerd or I'm perfect when it comes to my schoolwork when that really isn't the case. I've never been a straight A student, though I usually made ok grades. I had always planned to finish high school and go to college. I don't want to end up with a crappy job because I didn't get a good education but it feels like I'm at a dead end. I'm ridiculously unsure of myself and my future. I don't have any real life friends that I can talk to about this; i'm in the closet. I can be in a classroom full of students at school but I feel so distant from everyone else. I don't have amazing support at home; though my mom accepted me when I came out to her.
I've been seeing a counselor but it's like she doesn't know where I'm coming from. Am I just being too emotional or what? Does it sound like a depression? Any help would be appreciated. Thank you.
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