For Married Women or Women in long relationships?

Question

I'm a man and just like any other man s*x is all I think of. I'm truely in love with a girl right now. We agreed on not having s*x until we are married. Every now and then I will worry about it. I know s*x is one of the things I will look foward too, but I hear this steriotype of women always saying: "I gotta headach" or "I'm too tired" or whatever. Is this true? Do women not enjoy it after a while?

P.S. Cause never could I ever say I have a headache if asked!!!!

Answer 1

This really depends on the woman. Some of the guys that I work with complain about this everyday. All they ever fight about is s*x. It sounds terrible. They have to do things to get s*x. If they make their wife mad they don't get any. It really sounds like a control tactic with some of them. I have been married for 15 years, I am 40 years old and we have skipped s*x for sleep like three times in all of that time. It was kind of a mutual decision.  

Answer 2

I think it is very Rare for a woman to not like s*x...  OR to slow down after a while...  It might not be three times a day but it will be enough to keep a man happy...

The odds I think are low, but I am going based on my own and even those I knew personally...  No lack of drive here...  

So don't worry, keep her happy in other ways and I am sure this will follow...  

Answer 3

I'm married, and the only reasons I would ever turn down s*x for is:

1. I'm bleeding profusely from a gun-shot wound and need emergency medical attention (if the gun shot wound is not that bad, I'd have s*x first)

2. I lose my v****a

3. Somebody other than my husband is asking

You shouldn't worry. Women like s*x alot too.

Answer 4

i've been married for 6 years & i haven't used the excuse to get out of s*x, i love it with my hubby of course. I enjoy it, there are times when im so tired but usually its my husband & me tired at the same time. There are times when i just don't want to & the same for my husband. We try not to get stuck in the same routine with s*x, im not a freak or anything but if things need changing up then we change it. We're honest with each other too about s*x & open about what works and what doesn't. Sometimes its just s*x & its great but other times its making love & thats great. Don't sweat that too much, make sure you make your soon to be wife feel beautiful, s**y, & appreciated. At the beginning of a marriage that is easy but when your married for awhile & the newness has worn off don't forget to do that. If a woman doesn't feel good about herself or feels that her husband doesn't tell her she's beautiful or s**y that much then she's not going to be so up for s*x. My husband makes me feel beautiful, & always tells me i am.

Answer 5

Im sort of confused by this question. But, Ill answer it the best that I can.

So, when I started having s*x I wanted it ALL THE TIME!! Lately, I dont want it as much from my husband, but I have gained a lot of weight since marriage and I also stress out a lot, and I think that has something to do with it..lol!!

But, I wouldnt worry about it....if you love someone its worth the wait!

Answer 6

I'm a woman in an almost year long relationship and engaged and I would never turn down s*x for any reason other than if I was really sick with the flu or something... if your woman tells you she has a headache, tell her the s*x will fix that.  

Answer 7

Hmm.. well, first of all good for you guys for waiting. But seriously, stop worrying about it. Just imagine how good it will be when you do make love. Think about how much you love her. My boyfriend tells me all the time that s*x is amazing, but if he had to choose between s*x and holding me, he would rather hold me. Not because the s*x is bad.. believe me. But because the feeling of his arms wrapped around me makes me feel so safe and warm and loved. You know what I mean?

Answer 8

no its not that things become as a routine referring to s*x ask her what the two of you can come up with to bring sexual spark back it will give both of you a chance to learn about hidden pleasures or role playing, fantasies. talk about this before s*x it will raise endorphins.

Answer 9

This is a good question and one that you need to ask your fiancee before you are married. You need to be comfortable enough in your relationship to discuss things such as these before you marry.    Hope all goes well  

Answer 10

As long as I am in love with a guy I want it all the time.  But then when he starts cheating and flirting with other women it wears on me and I can't get as excited anymore.

Answer 11

The most s*x a couple will ever have together is in the first year of the relationship.  After that, it's less and less over time for various reasons.  The average married couple has s*x about 4-10 times a month.  

Sounds like more than you're getting now.  

Answer 12

Okay, I can't speak for all women, but I myself, am usually always in the mood for loving, be it s*x, foreplay, or just cuddling.  Even if I have a headache, it doesn't get in my way.  Some women suffer from low s*x drive, others suffer from a high s*x drive.  Some people also believe that over time, women become bored by s*x, I've been married 3 years (well 3 years this October) and I love my s*x life.  One thing to remember is don't feel scared to switch it up.  Talk about fantasies and act them out together.  Talk about what gets you hot and encourage her to do the same.  Feed off of that.  Use what she tells you.  Say she likes the feel of cold metal against her skin, go buy a pair of handcuffs and when she least expects it take them out and rub them over her body during intercourse.  Find out what positions, get her hot and heavy and remember them when you want to please her and tell her what positions you like as well.  Marriage is a give give relationship.  You give her something and she'll give you something.