For Matured Guys Only...?

Question

My friend a married guy with children is madly in love with a married lady with children too at there Office. He has managed to tell her his feelings towards her yesterday, but the lady just told him it would not be possible for the to have a relationship, that she could not cheat on her hus. but she was friendly with him. My friend even invited her out for a drink that yesterday but she gave excusses. She said she would pray for the guy so that he would be able to forget about her and be able to subdue the feeling. Now my question is. do you think this lady has any feeling for my guy? Do you think she would eventually agree to have any thing to do with my guy? Did my guy did wrong in telling her his feelings towards her? What do you think the lady has in mind? finally what do you think my guy should do?

lest I forget, the lady assured my guy that no body would hear there discussion when the told her not tell anybody there discussion and that my guy should try to forget about that feeling of love for her.

This morning she came to the guy office to say hi...

what do you think?

Answer 1

SHE is right...YOU (guy)are Wrong!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Tell your guy to lay off, we have enough broken homes and out of control children. She is probably flattered but not interested. He should consider the implications of any actions that might destroy another family. For the sake of what might just be a short term infatuation.

Answer 3

I think marriage is a convent we make with our mate and god and people need to stop looking in windows that don't belong to them   , you can say all you want this is your friend and your asking for him but guys don't get that involved in there guy friends relationships, so go home to your wife and either work it out or give her the respect she deserves and tell her your not happy and want out ,treat people the way you would want to be treated . good luck and be blessed, and please don't hurt your wife by cheating on her , even thinking or wishing or looking is all wrong and not fair to her ,she too has feelings and they should be just as important to you as your own

Answer 4

Your 'guy' should think himself lucky that he has a wife and children, a home to live in and a job.

Tell him to stop thinking with his crutch and turn his lust towards his own wife, not someone Else's.

Answer 5

if u are ur guy ur a douche if ur not ur guy tell him hes a douche

Answer 6

your guy is a snake, he is quite happy to cheat on his wife and children,  he is not considering them for one minute just following the urge from his trousers. fortunately the lady colleague seems from your description to be a decent person who is not prepared to deceive her husband and children whether she likes the guy or not.your friend should not have voiced his feelings and should leave well alone

and if I were his friend I would be ashamed to call him a friend he sounds like a low life.how can his friends trust him he could try it on with their wives.he seems to have no moral backbone or principals.

Answer 7

your question is too long...

Answer 8

I think it's a dead issue, and she has communicated that to your friend.If I was him, I'd step off and leave it alone.

Answer 9

tell your guy to go home to his wife.

if the other womans husband finds out her life is over, if I was him I would take your guy OUT when I find out.

quit F'n with the married woman, and what about you guy's wife???

tell him to go home and fall in love again with his wife.

If he would give his wife all the mental time he gives this other woman he would love his wife.

GO HOME!

Answer 10

may I answer? if yes..., here it comes:

there could be 2 options for this situation.

1. the women is happy with her life, love her hus, and was very honest  when told to your guy about how she feels, And she said hi to him just to be nice. In this case your gye has to be happy with having a family and try to injoy.

2. Womens don't always say the truth about their feelings right a way. She might like the idea of getting close with your guy, but she's waisting some time just to make sure about the decision she's going to take. In this case your guy has to b nice to her but not make her feel unconfotable, and wait until she makes her mind.

Frankly, I believe in the first option.