For all the daddys out their?

Question

What is the best way to go about telling my boyfriend i'm pregnant?! Im horribly nervious. He doesnt have ajob, ijust got fired. He lives about thirty minutes away with mommy-dearist, the most crazy, insane, bitchy, cracked out woman i've ever met. and my mom said if i get pregnant that she was disowning me and that her daughter would be dead to her. So imdefiniately in apickle. Please help...

Answer 1

Guess it's time for the two of you to get jobs, and try keeping them this time.  Next you'll need a nice, safe, clean apartment and tons of money.  Babies aren't free and they certainly aren't cheap.  And my tax dollars shouldn't have to support the three of you, so you better get a job with benefits.

Answer 2

If I was in your situation, I would just sit him down and calmly just tell him. Allow him to react. Then you can talk over what you'll do. Before you tell him, begin to look through classifieds. Circle possible one's and show him. He needs to get a job now. This is his responsibility. Feel free to email me anytime you want: [e-mail]

Answer 3

this is what I told my bf:: I was really upset when I found out and he asked me what was wrong.. so I said

'What's the worst thing I can say?'

and he knew right away lol

it's not going to be easy, but it's probably going to be the most rewarding thing you ever do.. if your mother really disowns you then it's her loss and you're better off without a negative influence like that around you and your baby..

the best thing you can do is find a job, and get your bf to find one.. and start planning your own lives outside of the nest ;)

Answer 4

Wow....sounds like this is the last thing you need to worry about. I would suggest telling him by saying you need to get a JOB!!!

Answer 5

my husband said to just tell him quickly and get it over with. it probably wont be pretty but you may be surprised--he could take it well. if you get it over with quickly, it will reduce the stress on you and your baby. if you need financial help, apply to WIC which will help with food and medicaid from medical care. Your mom might have been just saying that to scare you into not getting pregnant. She might freak at first but once she sees her grandchild she might come around. Also, you could look into open adoption. You could still keep in touch with the baby and make sure it is being well taken care of and a lot of couples will pay for medical expenses, food, and might even set you up in an apartment during these nine months. dont worry, it will all work out. you're not the frist person in this situation and you won't be the last! :) everything will work out in the end and if you keep the baby, remember--all that baby really needs for the first 5 years is you! good luck