For all women!!!??? Serious Question!??????

Question

So I want to know one thing: Should the guy you are in a relationship with have a plan for starting a life with you..?? Or would it be okay if there was no plan and just did whatever came and figured it out on the way??????

Answer 1

Really, it's your choice nad it depends on what you're doing.

You can make a plan so you can get prepared for the unexpected, or you can just make it up on the way. Maybe you can do both, because lets say you're trying to find a job. If you have your life planed, then you would get the job you've been planning for. But, if you were just to make it up on the way, lets say there was a job that you never heard of before and you used to do it and you were really good at it and you would get it.

Again, lets say that if you were planning, you would plan couple of things you need to do at the evening. Your husband wanted you to go to the movies and if you were figuring things out together, then you would have the time for stuff like that. But, if you were having a plan, then you wouldn't have time for that stuff.

If you're a person who wants to have fun and live life, then figuring things out is the way for you. But, if you're a serious person who wants to reach to the top, then planning your life is the way for you.

So, it's ok to do any really.

Hope I helped...

Always,

Musikk in tha earzz.

Answer 2

Even if the guy has plans of starting a life with you,it isn't an assurance that he can give you a perfect life however you can fill perfect moments in your relationship as you go  along the way.  

Answer 3

at first, he should see it as a possibility, then over time, it should become more and more real.  After a year or so, if he aint talking about forever, you should bring it up.   He might just be keeping you while he has his eye out for his next baby

Answer 4

wat are plans for??

to make sure theres some idea of wats going to happen.

PLAN !

but now that i think about it..takin it step by step DOES make alot of sense..

Answer 5

well you dont just get with a guy and then all of a sudden think the rest of your life you know. so its ok to not have a plan for the rest of your life but its also ok to have one too.  

Answer 6

2nd one

Answer 7

It depends on ur age and what u want from the relationship!

Answer 8

2nd

Answer 9

no plan and what ever happens happens

Answer 10

I would rather no plan and we figure it out together along the way =)  

Answer 11

Depends how old you are.  If you're at the age where your working full time, buying a house etc, then yes you should have a plan about the relationship, if you don't you could be wasting the other persons time and that just isn't fair!

Answer 12

Both are okay.

It depends on how comfortable you are with his plans or unpredictability. Maybe you should put some trust into a guy with no plans.

It's always good to know if you can see yourself with a guy for the remainder of your life, though.

Xoxo

Answer 13

the 2 one what happens happens

Answer 14

Personally, I don't need a plan, but it depends how serious you are, I guess, what kind of person you are, how old you are, what you're looking for, all sorts of things.