For anyone who has ever cheated on someone, do you ever regret it?

Question

do you wish you hadn't cheated? did karma come back and get you?

Answer 1

You know what for years I cheated on and off again on my now husband!!!!!!!!!!

I am sure he knew but loved me enough to stay!!!!!!!

I ask myself everyday what the heck made him love me so much and bless me with marriage and completing my life and the only answer I could come up with is God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sometimes things be right in front of us and we take them for granted and we find all the things in the world wrong with the other person and we never evaluate our selves............

How selfish we are.........

How self-centered we are.....

How controling we can be........

How everything in the entire world can be the fault of others and never evaluating ourselves......................

Then you sit back and you compare the relationships of the ones you chose to cheat with! Meaning if they cheated with you how much respect do they really hold for you being in a relationship with you knowing you are in a relationship with someone else. Were the outside relationship really worth it.............

In my case: I re-evaluated me........................

I looked at the outside relationship and saw it for what it was filling a void!!!!!!!!!!  But guess what it was my selfish nature that keep it going, it was my selfishness that kept me closed minded of what I really needed! I stop blaming my now husband and did reality check on me, and grew up and out!!!!!!!!!!!  Meaning I married my now husband and I wouldn't trade him in for the world ever again.............  No I don't regret people I cheated with because it was the experience that made me who I am today, and I learned alot!!!!!!!!  Commitment, and what it really is suppose to mean, and what you are to look for to make your own relationship work and be healthy and happy!!!!!!!!!!  I also learned not to be so darn judgemental and learn to be my own worst critc.........  But never question why God places certain people in our lives because everyone has there purpose!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't question my place in my husband life because I know and I take the bitter with the sweet!!!!!!! As for your question Karma, yeah it did come back and bite me on the butt!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The one I thought was a answer all caught out there cheating was not worth the time or the hour of the day!!!!!! But no I don't regret him he was my experience.........

How do they say experience can be your greatest teacher.............

Answer 2

Karma is one mean b*tch, she came back 10 times as strong. I sure as h**l regret cheating on my ex-girlfriend.

Answer 3

Nope to all.

Answer 4

Heh, heh... karma.  You people and your karma.  I never cheated on anybody and yet I've been cheated on.  And my cheater is now living a happy life.  Where's your so-called karma? Where is my justice? Admit it, sometimes bad things happen to good people and that's that.  

Answer 5

It is not okay to cheat.  It always comes back and gets you.

Answer 6

Yes and yes. You cant imagine the damage that does to someone. I have never and would not ever do it again. Young and stupid, and it messed up my life beyond repair.

Answer 7

yea i did cheat on someone before but people make mistakes i wish i didn't cheated on him............

Answer 8

I have cheated on my husband many times and no i dont regret it cause he wasnt interested so i figured why should i miss out.

Answer 9

Yes, you'll regret it.  Think long and hard before you do it.

Answer 10

It all depends on what type of husband you have. If he is an evil dog you wont have a second thoughts. If he is a sweet person and he treats you well don't do it. Evaluate your situation first

Answer 11

I cheated on my husband about 3 months ago. I’m very much ashamed of it and ended things with this other man before they really got started because my guilt got the best of me. We went on a “date” and he kissed me once but that was where I stopped things. I told the man I was wrong to even accept his offer and that I already felt like **** because of it. So that this was the end for us because I never should have been here in the first place.

Did karma get me? I say yes, others may say no. My karma, my GUILT haunts me every d**n day.

I’m ashamed of what I did but at least I can admit that I was wrong and it won’t ever happen again.

Answer 12

My fiance was cheated on and then he cheated on her. Divorced her and then met me.

Karma was obviously good to him. I would do anything for him!