For anyone who has suffered a miscarriage before?

Question

hi all well i just found out this week i'm pregnant and i am so happy .

i suffered a miscarriage in april at about 9-10 weeks what i wanted to no is with my three sons pregnancy i was never worried all the way through but with the last one i just kind of new right from the beginning something wasn't right

this time round i thought i would be really scared but I'm actually really calm like i was with my boys has this ever happened to anyone like you just had that feeling also should i request a early scan my last period was 29/07/08 so about 4/5 weeks so if so when thanks all for answering and hope I'm not confusing you with the ? thanks

Answer 1

I had a miscarriage and got pregnant a month later, I freaked and couldn't believe it happened so soon and then the whole time i was pregnant again I worried every time i went to the restroom i would check the toilet and toilet paper, I was just a nervous wreck for the first few months. Still till this day I'm always looking in the toilet and m now 39 weeks. But I think that a mother has a instinct in her heart an knows when somethings wrong or ok, so if you feel ok and good about this pregnancy then i truly believe everything is fine. If you tell them you miscarried they will do a sonogram Early to look for the baby's heartbeat, or at least that's what they did for me, i went more often in the begging and had more sonograms, just for the first couple months until miscarriage rate lowers down after so amy weeks. Good luck!!

Answer 2

First off I'm sorry for your loss! Happy that you have managed to have another chance!

I have only been pregnant once but it also didn't feel right. I was very nervous that it wasn't going well and at 7 weeks lost my baby.

I think your body picks up on what is happening.

Sounds like its going well for you this time! You can have an ultrasound on your first doctors appointment!

Good luck!

Answer 3

First off, congrats. I can only answer from my limited experience. I had a miscarriage with my 2nd pregnancy, and knew all along that something was different, the whole experience was so completely different from my 1st healthy pregnancy. I cant answer anymore, as have never been able to get pregnant since, due to complications, but I'd say, yes, you know if something is wrong. Therefore the fact that this time round you feel good is a good sign. But theres nothing wrong in requesting an early scan, tho I believe that until around 8 or 9 weeks, nothing can really be seen anyway. Good luck, and once again, congratulations x