For females only. Is it possible for a female to have s*x with another female and still be only straight?

Question

I am a bi-female and my one of my female lovers who also posts using this Yahoo ID disagree on this. Could you also tell us what is your sexual preference.

Answer 1

Interesting that if this question was about "straight" men having s*x with men but still being considered straight, everyone would say he's g*y quicker than lightening strikes.

Here, look, if a women has s*x with another women, and she enjoyed it, she's not straight. She's either bi or g*y, otherwise she would be repulsed by it. (Yes, there are women who actually are repulsed by even the thought of having s*x with other women). Now if she didn't enjoy it, she'd be straight, but formally bicurious.

Answer 2

I am into men - but I think everyone's sexuality exists as kind of like a sexual spectrum and we move back or along that spectrum throughout our lives.  So I guess I dont think we are necessarily straight or g*y or bi or whatever...its not static.  Our sexuality is fluid, if that makes sense.  

Answer 3

Yes, it's called curiousity. Straight, but curious/answer-seeking.  

Answer 4

well I think it depends upon if it just one time or something you want to do again and again..if you want to have s*x with woman again and again then you are sexually attracted to women...and you could be attracted to both men and women. There is nothing wrong with that. Why do you care if you are judged to be straight? Just be YOURSELF whoever that is.

Answer 5

Why the ban on men from answering? Some men might actually answer the question and not say anything about how hot girl girl action is or anything like that, there are some mature guys ya know. Anywhoo, if she has s*x with a chick, it would be hard to believe that she isn't bisexual to some extent, because that means she is sexually attracted to women to some extent or finds women sexually attractive.

Therefore, even if she prefers men sexually it still means she swings both ways. I mean do you think a man is straight if he has had s*x with another man? I would think he is at least bisexual and so would others. Why would women be immune to this or be in denial? It's much better when you are being truthful to yourself, there's nothing wrong with having same s*x attractions.

Answer 6

It's possible, but unlikely.  Straight female prostitutes will have s*x with women for the money.

Is it possible for a woman to enjoy s*x with other women and still be straight?  Not in my opinion.

Answer 7

Yes, certainly-- but not to make love.

Heterosexuality is about what you feel, not what you do. Plenty of lesbians have s*x with men before they are sure they're g*y.

Do these labels really matter anyway?

Answer 8

No. Straight.

Answer 9

I would say that someone who regularly has s*x with the same s*x is bisexual or g*y; but plenty of people who have s*x with the same s*x say they are straight. If you just have s*x a couple of times with someone of the same s*x, I'd say you're experimenting.

But sexuality is fluid for some of us. I'm bisexual. I dated men, married a man, and after 5 years left him. I considered myself straight but knew I had romantic interests in women and had told my husband that before I married him. After I left my husband, I dated women and was with a woman for 15 years-I called myself a L*****n since I'd been with a woman so long and didn't have any interest in dating men. After our relationship ended, I got curious about men, dated men, and have been with a man for 2 years. Based on the knowledge that I still find women attractive and know I can love a woman romantically, I call myself bisexual now.

Could I have called myself bisexual before I married a man? Since I hadn't been romantically involved or sexual with a woman, I didn't consider myself bisexual then. But looking back, I could have, as I'd been in love with a woman. Could I have called myself bisexual while I was with a woman for 15 years? Looking back, I know now I wasn't interested in men for a long time, only women, so I really don't know if that would have been accurate. Now? I know I'm attracted to both genders, but am in love with my male partner. Does he know about my past? You bet. He's met my previous female partner. Does he know I'm attracted to women? You bet, we check out women together-which was a bit different for him at first, but now he doesn't even notice.

I've been open about my desires and romantic interests, but it's taken a while at times to assign the label. Sometimes you're really not sure what you feel is a passing feeling, a phase or permanent. Even when it seems permanent, it can still change for some of us. I believe some of us are in the middle of the sexuality scale, we really are bisexual; but others really are straight or g*y and rarely if ever think of the same or opposite s*x.    

Edit: I would say the same thing about a man who had s*x a couple of times with a man. I'd consider it experimenting and only if he had s*x regularly with men would I consider him bi or g*y. I don't have rigid definitions for men about their sexual identity, any more than I do for women.

Answer 10

This question will answer all your questions, so respond and let me kno wat u think?

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 11

Yes as labels such as straight, bi, and g*y are how we define ourselves.  Now, if a woman had s*x with thousands of women in her past, but has now settled down with a man, if she chooses to call herself straight she can.  How would you ever know that she slept with a thousand women in the past?  You wouldn't unless she told you.  Now if she were in a relationship with a woman and called herself straight that would be quite silly, but bi, and g*y would be perfectly acceptable.  Add to that women's sexuality is far more fluid then men's and while one could have s*x with a woman does not mean that one could have a relationship with a woman. Does that qualify someone as bi or just opportunistic?  

I'm straight btw

Answer 12

I'm straight, and I don't think you're straight.  I'm tired of girls making out with each other, sleeping together, and then claiming that they're straight.  If a guy even hugs another guy, he's seen as g*y.  What a double standard.

EDIT: Oh yeah? Well I MADE it about double standards! Wanna make something of it?

Answer 13

Of course, it's possible for a woman (who considers herself straight) to have s*x with another female. That experience may result in her not enjoying or taking much from it or realising that she may have had a sexual inclination towards women (even minimally).

Anyone can curiously experiment anything, but the results (enjoying it or not) remain to be seen.

Answer 14

No