For guys, because girls will no **** all about this!?

Question

Okay, I cried after a break up. I'm a guy. What's wrong with me? How can I live with this??

I thought that men didn't get emotional. I feel like sh-poo for leaving the "MAN" code behind, and I'm sorry if girls find out about it becaus ethey clicked it even if it said not too. But please guys, did I lose my manly?

Answer 1

When a man cries, it's awesome because sensitive men are hot.  I know a couple of men that have cried, and they are chick magnets.

Answer 2

Hey listen! A guy who shows his emotions is perfectly fine. It is just a stereotype that guys shouldn't show their emotions. Emotions have one of the most powerful effects on our bodies and controls practically everything we do. If a guy hold all his emotions/anger/torment/upset, inside him, it will be expressed in other ways such as aggressiveness or personality changes. But there is nothing wrong with a man crying or showing how he feels. And no you didn't loose your manly!

Just relax and enjoy the freedom that letting your emotions out can give you. I hope I have helped!

Answer 3

thats alright, if you cry it just means that

YOU ARE NOT A MAN!!!

Answer 4

that is not hot

Answer 5

no u didnt, i would rather my guy cry and let out his emotion, its s**y 2 me that he trusts me enough to show how he feels but ya since i dont know jack, you have lost your "manly", your a fruit and your g*y.... why dont you try respecting a girls opinion after all we are the ones you go out with... unless you are g*y?

Answer 6

i've seen so many guys cry

everyone does it, it's just that no one ever talks about it

...kinda like a secret society

Answer 7

dude, EVERYONE cries!!! i thinkyou are being sexist...

Answer 8

wow...you're a guy that cried? god. you are really unmanly...you just shattered your pride and image. god. whats wrong with you!?

EDIT!: Okay, look, you cried, big deal? Who cares? Everyone cries. Maybe you broke your leg, maybe your mom died, maybe your gf lied to you about everything and used you and left you for another guy or even another girl, who cares! You are allowed to cry as a human being. There are plenty of guys who cry. My ex bf would cry when me and him got in big serious fights. I didn't think any less of him. It just shows that whoever made you cry really had your care, trust, and love. I don't see what's bad about that? But if you really feel bad about it just work out or work on a car or whatever other guy things there are to do. Mostly though don't think that just because you cried that you're any less of a man. I personally think more of a guy if they cry because it shows that they aren't trying to be a tough guy and that they actually care about things.

-- Best Wish.

Answer 9

It could just be PMS

Maddox's book rocks

Answer 10

Obviously I had to click on this, and I think I'll answer it because you I want to tell you there's absolutely nothing wrong with crying after a break up even though you're a guy.

Harriet

Answer 11

"Man" Code? Give me a break.

Being a man means being true to yourself and not worrying about what others might think. So you cried? Big deal. Men cry occasionally. I cried when my wife died. I've cried other times too. Real men aren't afraid to show emotion when it's appropriate. You only lose your 'manly' when you start giving a c**p what others think. Be true to yourself.  

Answer 12

i think its okay to cry becuzz it just means you really cared about this girl. and no it doesnt make u unmanly. im a girl and it would make me feel like you cared about me. so its entirely okay.  

Answer 13

get hard

Answer 14

girls love guys who can cry

Answer 15

i would normally say that it's ok for a man to cry...but since i don't know sh*t...i will say you're a total fruit

Answer 16

You can't be serious, right?

No matter what, through some point of a man's life he cries. Especially if you care enough for someone. When you see these macho men strutting around, it's mainly an act and if showing no emotion at all, means you're a "man" then I definately don't want to be with a man.

I also do know a lot of things, as well as sh*t.  :)

I've been married over 12yrs and I've made my husband cry a few times. He's human after all.  

Now.. if you're running around decorating your home with coordinating colors and patterns, then you may have lost your manliness but crying is forgivable :P

Answer 17

No - don't worry about what others say or think.  It's ok to be sensitive & somewhat emotional.  But, if there's no chance of a reunion - then you need to get over it.  If your girl had been killed in an auto accident, it would have been sad & tragic & you would have cried - but you would eventually realize that life goes on - and you would get on with the rest of your life. I don't like to live by 'CODES'.. Who are these codes for?  Who made up the rules for these Codes?  A Code for me may not be the right Code for you!  Forget about feeling ashamed for crying - it's nobodies business but yours.  Try not to let others govern what you say or think.  No, I don't think you lost your 'MANLY;  Besides, it wouldn't be the end of the world if you did.  You seem to care more about what OTHERS think & you really need to start thinking for yourself.  Try it - you'll like it.  Good Luck.