I have 2 boys (2 and 13 months) and they're eachother's best friends and worst enemies at times. In the last month or so, they're starting to get more and more rough with eachother (which I know is to be expected). Occasionally, we run into issues where one hurts the other. Although I know it's not intentional or malicious, the behavior still can't go unpunished. So my question is... if one kid hurts the other- what do you do first? Comfort the injured one or punish the brute?
Since my boys are both still young, I know that punishment needs to happen right after the incident in order for them to understand why they're being punished. But at the same time, I don't want to leave a kid who was just pushed off the laundry basket into the wall on the floor crying. If I comfort the hurt one, the injurer gets a few minutes to wander off and forget what's going on....know what I mean?
So what do you mommies do?
If daddy's home, this situation is easily resolved. Daddy lays down the iron fist and mommy provides the snuggles. But when it's just me or him home, it presents a predicament.
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