For people who believe abortion is murder, and the women are monsters for doing it?

Question

I have been seeing a lot of people say that abortion is murder and that women had the choice to not have s*x and it is their fault that they are pregnant and that they are monsters for killing an innocent child...

here are my questions

1. I ask you people, have you EVER sat down with women who had abortions and talked to them? did you ever ask them questions and listened to what they have to say?

----if you did what did you hear? did you learn anything?

----if not then how come? are you afraid to?

I have supported abortion ever since i heard of it but i still talked to the women and listened to them. i suggest everyone do this, listen to their side of the story instead of jumping the gun and criticizing them.yes i'm sure there are some women who are really stupid and use abortion as a way to not to have a baby but really i have never met one and no they are not even close to the majority of the people who have abortions.

please answer respectively

Answer 1

I know two women who have had abortion, they aborted the child for a sick reason, which i will not say. I think abortion can be accepted in certain conditions, but do i support abortion, no i dont. But i will not judge others for making there own decisions.

Answer 2

i know a few. their stories are

"i got pregnant, but, i used a condom and it broke"

"im too young to have a baby"

"my boyfriends and his parents are making me do it"

"i cant support myself, let alone a baby"

i am pro-choice also. and almost 90% of women that do have abortions, dont talk about it. believe it or not, they do feel terrible for what they have done, but, for them, it was their only choice. and most people would say "well just give it up for adoption" that is easier said than done im sure. i am all for womens rights. even if it means abortion. its our right to chose. and, most people dont realise, that the guy has just as much, if not more to do with it, than the woman.

Answer 3

Read the web-page Defending the Right, Against Abortion Wrongs

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HELLO rebeccan...

I see you did nor read much beyond the FIRST paragraph.

The first paragraph of the article sets the tone for the rest of the article as a comparison.

There are many links supporting each major concept.

I have not interviewed any women who had  abortions. However I have thoroughly researched and the studied and wrote about the issue for over 30 years.

( And You? )

Could you point me in the right direction, that I might have interview access to women who have regretted their abortions?

I would think they would much rather talk to a woman doctor, than a man.

You said, "...i'm sure there are some women who are really stupid and use abortion as a way to not to have a baby"

- - What else is abortion for? - -

Read the web-page!

"Many times the aborted infant’s dead bodies are sold for "medical research", drug industry or for the cosmetics industry. The abortionist is making money on both ends! It is conflict of interest, when every pregnant female gets recommended for an abortion, and not being given any other options when they report to Planned Parenthood."

You will find more surprising facts. Like a link to:

101 USES FOR A DEAD (or live) BABY by Olga Fairfax, PhD - www.skepticfiles.org/mys2/deadbaby.htm

Answer 4

Some people, like myself, don't know anyone that has had an abortion.

Im still pro choice though, im just all about more freedoms.

Answer 5

I am also pro-choice. A cousin of mine has had over 3 abortions. They were for selfish yet unselfish reasons. She just could not afford to care for the children and still claims that her partner worse a condom that came off or broke.

If she had the child there would have been no way for her to care for the child, she was living below the poverty line before she had kids and if she had had them then she would have no choice but to turn them over to the state. How many pro-life supporters would have volunteered to be a foster parent?

There are plenty of other reasons why I am pro-choice but I do not see why anyone would want a woman to have a baby even if they could not care for it.