For the bisexuals out there...?

Question

are there bisexuals out there who in general don't find a gender attractive, but develop feelings for them and in some cases DO find them attractive because you've got feelings for them?

what do you think?

Answer 1

I guess that's possible for anyone. I'm bisexual but like women more then men.

Answer 2

As a bisexual I can tell you that being bisexual is about the heart and not the gender. In other words, being gender blind.

It's not really about needing both genders at the same time, contrary to belief.

I think people tend to associate bisexuality with promiscuous because there are so many people out there experimenting with sexuality and labeling themselves as "bi" or "bi-curious" thereby muddying the true defintion of "bisexual"

Answer 3

YES. That's exactly how I am! I like girls, A LOT. But guys..I need to develop feelings for them first.

Answer 4

i dunno. I just happen to find both genders attractive. Obviously each gender is different, but I just love both. For my being shallow, It's usually in the reverse order for me : attraction, then getting to know them.  

Answer 5

I guess its possible but I done know anyonenlike that

Answer 6

I find both genders attractive, but not to the point where I'd do anything extreme(ie. have s*x).

Answer 7

in some cases that may indeed be true.

like i like women more then men

and for me to actually find a male and what he has to offer attractive i have to develop feelings for him whereas with woman i find an instant attraction and develop feelings at a quick but reasonable pace after. so its totally different ends of the spectrum for each s*x

i guess its just each to there own on this one.